Carla Swafford Romance Writer

Time Again, Come On Over

2012-02-12T05:00:00.001-06:00

I'm over at the Romance Magicians blog today talking about things I've learn since being published. Come over and comment please.

Huh?

2012-02-11T05:00:00.000-06:00

I had someone to lie to me yesterday. It wasn't what they said that bothered me so much. It was the lie that hurt. I had believed the person. :::sigh::: Well, hell.

Can I Have Cheese With My Whine?

2012-02-10T08:00:00.000-06:00

At my writers' group meeting last month, author Lexi George talked about being published and whatshe wished someone had told her. She did a great job by making itinteresting and informative.

That got meto thinking about a certain situation that has come up since I received THECALL. In my case, an email was my first contact on Avon Impulse wanting my booknow titled Circle of Desire, though two days later my editor called to talkabout what they were offering.

Unlike Lexi,whose books can be purchased on the shelves of most bookstores and probably atother types of merchants (e.g., Wal-mart, Target, etc.), my books can only bepurchased on-line, either by e-format or print on demand. So advertising is anumber one priority for me. How else will be people know my book is availableif I don’t let them know? In a brick and mortar bookstore, they have around200,000 titles (per B&N’s website) on their shelves. While on line, thenumber is more like 30 million. Yes! That’s with seven zeros! So what doyou think are the odds of one e-book being noticed? It’s not like someonecan walk to a certain section (Romance) and see my book. Even they don’t buyit, it becomes familiar to them and who knows, they may purchase it next time.

Don’t get mewrong, I’m not complaining. Well, not really. I’m proud that my book found ahome with HarperCollins. A dream in more than one way that’s come true. And Iunderstood in the beginning that it wouldn't be in a store.

I’ve heard alot of authors talk about being on their own when it came to advertising theirbook. My publisher has done a little advertising around the time it wasreleased just as most publishers, but you and I know that’s not enough. I alsoknew they expected me to get word of mouth out by blogging and giveaways. And I did. Buthey, unless you’re a New York Times best selling author, it’s hard to grab people’sattention.

[I had mentioned this in a prior post] Oh, I’ve gotto tell you something so funny that proves the point I just made. In thebeginning of January, my editor came across my book in iTune’s iBookstore as afeatured book. How cool is that? Anyway, it hit the Top Ten EroticaRomance list. When I looked at it, it was number three. Of course, beinga newbie and excited that my book was on some type of list, I looked at itevery day for about two weeks. It got as high as number two. Then one day, Icouldn’t find the link for Erotica under Romance category. Strange. I couldfind the section if I search my book and click on the links at the top of thatpage. A few days later, that section totally disappeared. Huh? I knew they wereupdating iBooks because they had recently announced that they would startselling text books. Okay. But what does that have to do with romance? Anyway,that section is no more. ::sigh:: Yet during the small time I was on thatlist, I noticed the number of reviews increased five to ten a day. Likesomeone told me, not everyone who buys a book on line does reviews, so that wasthrilling. Of course, you and I know by it being on that list, people wouldautomatically buy it. That’s how NYT best sellers sometimes can stay for weeksat the top. That’s why BAM and other booksellers have sections showingthe top selling books. And you guessed it, the number of reviews havedropped considerably since then. It’s hard to find my book unless you’relooking for it. Also another point I’ve made in earlier paragraphs.

So now I’mtrying to save up money to do advertising and hope to get people's attention in time for my next book. We'll see how it goes.

What Are The Odds?

2012-02-09T20:44:00.004-06:00

Something tragichappened to me a few weeks ago. I lost my editor. No. Thank goodness, shedidn’t die but she left my publisher for another job (in non-fiction). Okay, someone’s wondering, “So what! They’ll give you another editor.” And theydid. A nice lady who should be sending me edits soon. But you need tounderstand, all authors are insecure.

The one that left is the same editor who pulled my bookfrom the slush pile and decided it had merit, the same editor who understoodwhere I was going with my series and took as much delight in the twists andturns as I did. She’d even suggested a story line for book number three thatthey hadn’t even bought, giving me a warm and fussy feeling that they might buyone, maybe two more from me. My new editor and/or my publisher could decide theseries isn’t one they have faith in and not offer another contract. I may nolonger have a cheerleader shouting my potential for more sales. So if you’reinto odds, my odds of 95 out of 100 of getting another contract has now droppedto 75 out of 100. And I'm actually being an optimistic as usual (still with a dash of a cynic).

The Ups and Downs of Conferences

2012-02-05T12:18:00.000-06:00

Yesterday, I had an empty date to fill for the Romance Magicians' blog and decided to do a little advertising for the Silken Sands Conference. Check it out and go. You won't regret it. Even if you don't get the appointment you want or the request you need, there's always the beach. How can anyone be sad there?

It got me to thinking about all of the conferences I've been to and if you've been reading this blog (few do), you'll know that I've been to LOTS of them. Around 20 in nine years or so. Last year was the first time in nine years that I didn't go to one.

I'm having to relook at how I approach conferences. Always before, I looked to see what editors and agents were coming and that usually helped me decide. Those important appointments/contacts, you know. I guess now I need to plan to do workshops. Of course, networking is still important.

Sure I would love to stay at Avon forever, but in this world of change, that may not be possible. They may drop me or I may want to change genres, and publishers don't always want an author to do that. That is, if the series they're writing is successful. If you've been reading my blog, you'll know that I don't believe mine could be called that so far. I'm a perpetual optimist with a thread of cynical belief in Murphy's Law. I'm still hoping that once Avon Impulse places Circle of Desire at 99 cents, that will increase the public's interest in my future books. Then they won't have to mark any more of mine down that low.

Side note: I really need to write a blog about free and low priced books, especially to do with self-publishing and what I think about the whole thing. (Mix.)

Drum Roll Please . . .

2012-02-03T19:51:00.002-06:00

Circle of Danger release date is June 26!

Hopefully, we'll have a book cover for it before long. I plan to ask for a cover similar to Circle of Desire, except for a man's beautiful muscular back. And this time I plan to do a book trailer earlier.

YAY!

OMG!

2012-01-31T21:37:00.000-06:00

One of my buddies at work said she could watch this all day long. Oh, yeah. Me too.

How Far Can I Go?

2012-01-30T21:50:00.000-06:00

I've been thinking of this for the last year, especially since I've become published. Time is precious (no matter published or not) and I believe I'll give the blog about 40 more posts (that'll make it post 1000) and then I'll call it quits. It doesn't interest many people (Hello, JoAnn! And whoever it is that looks at it from Mountainview, CA!) and I really need to dedicate my time to productive things that generate more interest than this. Even my kids don't read it. :-)

What do I plan to do with it? Probably pull it together into a book for myself. I believe Blogger has a program set up so I can do that. Hopefully it doesn't cost an arm and leg. If it does, I'll think of an alternate plan. In the meanwhile, I'll probably leave it up for a few months and make sure this is what I want to do.

We'll see how it goes.

P.S. Mountainview, CA: I would love to know who you are.

There Are Emails and Then There Are Emaaails

2012-01-24T18:26:00.002-06:00

Emails. They can be life savers. You know, when you have totell someone something important and you want proof that you did. Or youemail someone who is notorious for keeping you on the phone forever. Short andsweet. Or you email yourself a reminder, knowing you always check your accountwhen you get home. Or when you have to tell someone bad news. Whowouldn’t rather send an email, though that’s a little dangerous and youprobably know why. That leads into . . .

Emails. They can be the bane of our existence. You send anemail asking for clarification on someone’s email or you remind someone whatthey forgot to do. Or you make a statement, it can be positive but especiallythose that are negative, and before you know it, you’re in a heated emaildebate. I hate those with a passion. I’ve had the misfortune to beinvolved in three separate instances where people have become angry atsomething I’ve typed in an email. Working in a day job that includes mainlyworking with men, I’ve learned to be short and to the point. Nothing like mywriting here or my romances.

The first time it happened, I tried my best to defuse it by explainingwhy I said what I did. When the angry emailer continued to blast me, I knew itwasn’t getting anywhere. Some people just want to take offense and see wordsthat aren’t written in the email. In other words, they read between the lines.Sad thing, I try to be polite, but I never say anything I don’t mean. I have noidea what type of experiences that person has had in the past. She (yes, verysad thing, they’ve all been women) may have been lied to by another woman andshe didn’t trust I was being truthful. Or she thought I was beingsarcastic. It’s a shame there are no fonts for Truthfulness, Teasing,Sarcasm, and Sincerity.

Another time, I simply asked a question that someone else had askedme. I was mildly curious and a simple answer in turn would’ve satisfiedme. Lord of Mercy, you would’ve thought I had questioned their ancestry. Afterlearning from the previous time of how when someone doesn’t like you (that’swhen I realized she didn’t – people who like you are less likely to get sooffended when you ask a question and not even a personal one), I quickly apologizedfor the misunderstanding and never asked a question of that function again.Well, at least to that person within her hearing and certainly not in an emailto anyone.

The doozy email problem was with an author I’d admired and reallyliked, and it had happened in-between the two above. Looking back on it,I realized I could’ve handled it better. It was during a stressful timefor everyone, and I had already been on pins and needles as the author in aprevious email had accused me of ignoring her at a function. I cried whenI got that email. Like I said it was stressful time and one of my favoritepeople was upset with me. Needless to say, when she began fussing at a meetingabout how something was handled (she hadn’t attended a meeting in a year) andthen emailed our chapter loop complaining, once again, I tried to explain, evenstood up for myself. As you can imagine, it didn’t go well. She has spoken tome only once since then, but she hasn’t been to a writers meeting since. Ihated that it happened, but we all must move on. Although, like I said, Icould’ve handled it better, I know she wouldn’t listen to what I had to say asshe’d already decided that I couldn’t be trusted. Too sad.

If only these people knew, I’m so honest as sometimes I take onresponsibility of things I later find out wasn’t my fault. I just assume Iscrewed up. I know I’m not perfect, wished I was. One thing I have realized,sounding like you’re too nice (giving truthful compliments about clothes orsomething they did) can make people who don’t like you think you’re insincere.

So what I’ve learned from all of this. Don’t have negative opinions inemails. If someone attacks you in an email or you think they have, ignore them.If you can’t, keep it short (that’s very important), polite, and if you must doso to defuse the situation, apologize, and then don’t answer any more of theiremails about that subject afterwards. Then if they continue to sendaccusations or whatever, others (if it is on a loop or public arena) will realizeit wasn’t you, or if privately, they will realize you’re ready to move on andtheir insecurities are their problem.

Cardboard People

2012-01-23T20:04:00.001-06:00

Have you ever read a book and never felt like you knew the character? You often don't even finish the book. While the books you read and love, doesn't it feel like you know those people?

When a book has a hero/heroine who never changes their personality or even their mind, then they're a cardboard character. One dimensional.

What got me to thinking today about that was how I've changed over the years. Not just appearing older (and bigger - though now not quite as big - thank goodness) but how I feel about life and the people around me. When I was a kid, I wouldn't drink tea. Yeah, I know, how un-Southern of me. Well, now I love the stuff. Part of the reason was my mom put so little sugar in it, it tasted like tainted water. My mother-in-law uses a lot of sugar and that's when I fell in love with it.

You know people expect you to be the same as you were as a child, teenager or young adult. Impossible for most of us. We mature, have different experiences, learn to improve on ourselves or develop bad habits. I'm not the same person I was last year. Sure, basically I am, but still I've changed.

So if you read a book where the heroine (using a woman for an example) is kick-ass and sure of herself to the point she does no wrong, then she's cardboard, one dimensional. I like my heroines with big faults and big problems to solve. She learns new ways to deal with her problems. She's even willing to look outside the box.

The same thing for the guy. I like a guy to skirt the law if needed and not always to justify the end. That realization of needing to improve comes often after he falls in love and wants to be a better man. Maybe he doesn't know how and the heroine doesn't have to show him. He just depends on instinct, wanting to please his lady and become a better man. Don't forget, men think different than women. What he thinks is a better man might not actually fit into what the heroine "thinks" is better. But us women are flexible, we're willing to applaud the effort.

Three to four dimensional characters is what I shoot for and sometimes readers aren't willing to let them grow and become better people. I have to say if they would give them a chance, it will be so worth it.

iBookstore

2012-01-22T18:41:00.002-06:00

I mentioned this on Facebook and Twitter and totally missed it here. But a couple weeks ago, Circle of Desire was #2 on iBookstore's Romance Erotica. Isn't that cool? It's staying in the top 10 (updated daily or hourly, not sure) most of the time and today around 6 p.m. was in number 10.

It's been so much fun looking at the list every day. Friday, I noticed that the sub-category Erotica had been dropped off the "MORE ROMANCE" title. WHAT! So I've sent an email to iTunes. We'll see if they even fix it. So if you type in Erotica Romance (in the search location), it goes to mostly the regular erotica. Yes, there is a difference. Big time difference. So frustrating.

So the only way I've found to get that spot is to type in my name in the search location. Click on Circle of Desire and then at the top left, click on Erotica (shows as Books > Romance > Erotica > Carla Swafford). Then the bestseller list is on the right.

For prosperity, I 'snipped' the website so I can keep it plus show you. This is from January 11, 2012, when Circle of Desire was #2.

[Added 1/23/12: You can also go to my book by clicking Books, then $3.99 and less, and then click on Romance. I'm in that section (no "Top" chart) too!]

Something To Lighten The Mood

2012-01-17T05:00:00.000-06:00

Sick Puppy

2012-01-16T05:00:00.000-06:00

I've decided that I like to do edits. To me, it inspires. Makes me improve my story and fills me with confidence that the story is working. No. I'm not expecting my editor to read this. I really feel this way.

To some people, I'm a sick puppy for feeling this way.

Just saying . . .

Luck or Skill

2012-01-15T05:00:00.000-06:00

I love to play games: board, cards, video, softball, whatever. When it comes to cards and other tablegames, I’m usually lucky the first few hands and then I don’t know if I get toosure of myself or what, but I start losing.

One time I played a dice game almost every weekend with one of my husband's aunts, and for around two years, I lost every hand. Don't ask me why I kept playing. I don't have an answer. Maybe because it was fun and I'm too hard-headed to give up. Then I finally won a game. Funny thing. We stopped playing.

I did learn I wasn't a strategist and most games involve that skill.

Anyway, I've never counted on luck to carry me through anything. Lotteries. Tried them but I knew it was unlikely that I would win. But I do have to say at special church functions, I won several door prizes. There has been times I just "felt" something good would happen and it did.

Yeah, yeah, I know this all sounds strange because I did enter several writing contests over the years. But to me that wasn't entirely luck. A good portion of it had to be the story that caught the judges' attention along with my writing. So in that case, luck played only a small part.

Though not a game, but has to do with luck: when the day job I had for twenty years sold and was being moved away by the new company, I was blessed and fortunate to find another job immediately with the possibility of even another with a company I really wanted to work with. Well, I did. Now I work for the company I wish I had started at those twenty years before (I would've made a heck of lot more money and have a bigger 401K too).

I felt powerful like I could do anything. Though I had gone through hard times at the old company, I knew my job inside and out. I was confident. Then I started at the new day job and it kicked my butt. I felt stupid. I felt like I disappointed a lot of people. After thirteen (see #13 popping up) years, I'm finally back confident with my job though it's stressful and kicks my butt often. And some days I don't feel so smart. But not stupid, thank goodness.

When I got The Call last year and knew I would finally have a book published, I expected my luck to start getting better again, but I was aware it could stay the same. I figured it could go one of two ways. I could do real great at first (like I do in games) and then everything would slack off and I would disappoint myself and others. Or I would struggle in the beginning and then people would become confident in me and my books would slowly grow in popularity.

Well, I think it's a combination (so far) of both. I enjoy working with my editor and everything went well. Got a great blurb from a well-know author (my sweet friend) and impressed my editor and agent. The way I look at it, I did everything right. (I think.) But my sales haven't been where they need to be. I work real hard not to compare myself to anyone, but it's human nature to do so and I feel in some ways as if I let people down. Sorry. Pity Party moment.

BUT, it might be the other thing happening. Where I start off slow and everything grows in popularity. One of the benefits of not having an advance, I don't have to worry about it being paid back and maybe my publisher will give me a little longer to get the word out there. Everything is pointing to me getting another contract but who knows? They may decide I'm not worth the trouble.

It's a shame that this all didn't happen when the economy was better and I was making some great bonuses - the day job company hasn't paid one in three, going on four years. The bonuses would've been helpful in paying for advertising. And we all know how that helps a lot.

Truth be told, there were a few other things that could've been done differently by others and I've wondered why some were treated better, but that's neither here or there and this isn't the place to air that. The Party ends here.

I plan to hang in there and keep working at getting my name out into the public, write more books and see what happens. The slow to start and grow in confidence and popularity sounds good to me. So much better than depending on luck.

So wish me luck...uh...continued success and I'll let you know how the next book does.

Come On Over

2012-01-14T05:00:00.000-06:00

Yep, once again, it's that time! I'm over at the Romance Magicians talking about lucky numbers. Funny thing was I almost forgot to post on my scheduled day.

Re-Run #10

2012-01-13T05:00:00.000-06:00

Avon Romance: Introducing Carla Swafford (October 26, 2011)

I'm going to cheat on this one and make you click here and you'll go straight there. It's just so cool as this one was on Avon's blog. Yeah. Cool, isn't it? I never dreamed I would be with the same publisher as Susan Elizabeth Phillips. In fact, the other day, all of the Avon authors had a conference call to hear a presentation on Social Media and Susan spoke up. When she said her name, I had to cover my mouth from squealing. Considering how often I roll my eyes when other people do that, that's got to tell you something. LOL!

Re-Run #9

2012-01-12T05:00:00.000-06:00

This one is from Cynthia Eden's blog on November 8, 2011. She's a talented and kind author who invited me to her blog. It was a lot of fun with lots of comments.

Why I Love Alphas,and No! My Heroine Isn’t A B*tch.

Thank goodness Cynthia doesn’t write young adult. Otherwise,I would have to change the title, and I would hate that as it clearly tells youwhat I’m about to post.

First, let’s talk about heroines, especially those strongwilled and confident ones. In Circle ofDesire, Olivia St. Vincent is logical and capable of doing the job requiredwithout allowing her emotions to interfere with the job. When I first wrote thebook, my critique partners disliked her. Yet, I thought she was interesting.She was totally different than any of the tough heroines in the books I love toread.

So I had to figure out a way to get the readers to give hera chance and not throw the book against the wall. What I found is I needed toshow what’s happening deep, deep inside of her in the beginning. Otherwise, shecomes across cold and cardboard-like. By inserting a few physical tremors andself-deprecating humor after she completes an assignment (killing a man),readers can look into her psyche and realize she’s what she is because she’s asurvivor. Life has thrown her some really hard curve balls and her skin hastoughened with each hit.

I do enjoy writingwomen like Olivia. Resilient and self-sufficient and enjoys a sexy man on herown terms.

Now let’s talk about my favorite man to read: the Alphamale. Of course, you have to capitalize Alpha for no other reason than they’re,well, Alpha. Seems appropriate, doesn’t it? They’re larger than life.Masterful, dangerous, and downright sexy. Some are more caveman than gentleman.I lean more toward gentleman with an edge. I like them smart. They can talk youinto their bed. Who am I kidding? They can look at you with one eyebrow liftedand you’re willing to crawl into their bed, but don’t we all love making themwork for it?

Collin Ryker is a gentleman. In the beginning of the book ―don’t worry, I’m not giving away anything that isn’t in the blurb ― he tries toget Olivia to take the knockout drug without forcing her. That is, besidesrestraining her hands and feet. But when she resists and time has run out, hepersuades her to swallow the pills in a unique, and dare I say it, sexy way.

My heroes know they can’t boss around their ladies withoutrepercussions. Hey, the fellows even respect them for it. In Collin’s case, heeven gets a little excited by Olivia’s way of showing her displeasure. Heehee.

Collin isn’t the only Alpha in this series. Yes. Another oneis due out the first half of 2012. It’s titled Circle of Danger. And I hope to write several more. In Circle of Danger, you’ll find out whatmakes Collin’s brother tick. While Collin is a gentleman with an edge, Ryker’sall edge with an emphasis on intense. His heroine, Marie, is the only personwho can calm his beast. Sigh.

Now, what are some ofyour favorite traits in the Alpha heroes you enjoy reading?

Reminders!

2012-01-11T05:00:00.000-06:00

Just a reminder that you can follow me on Twitter (@carlaswafford) and LIKE me at Facebook (Carla Swafford, Author). Be sure to sign up for my newsletter. I promise you won't receive one every month. Probably two to four times in a year. Maybe.

Re-Run #8

2012-01-10T05:00:00.000-06:00

This the post I did at Just Romantic Suspense website on November 9, 2011. It's a great place to find all the authors and their books of romantic suspense. Thus the name of the website. LOL!

Who Knew Romantic Suspense Would BeThe One?

Being a lover of all genres of romance, I started reading romantichistoricals when I was twelve, and later added Harlequin contemporaries andthen whatever paranormals I could find. At that time, there were more horror paranormalthan romantic.

When I decided to try my hand at writing, my first try was a coupleparagraphs about a hand holding a gun and pointing it through an open doorway.My brother teased me about my horrible prose. But I didn’t give up. A few yearslater, I wrote my first full book: a medieval and the heroine didn’t have alittle brother.

Who would’ve ever guess that #*&%&^ (mumble-mumble) years later Iwould be published in romantic suspense. By the way, my brother is very proudof me.

When I started writing Circle of Desire, I had completed eightother books and the last two were paranormal. I wanted to look for somethingdifferent to write. Authors are told all the time write what you love. Well,that’s what I had done so far. I’d written vampires, witches, and a femalechauvinist. Others were of a bad boy preacher’sson, tough-as-nails sheriff, and a female truck driver. So what was left?

One of my favorite booksof Linda Howard’s is All The Queen’s Men.The über-spy, John Medina, is sexy and pure Alpha. I always have to capitalizeAlpha. Just seems right. Then I loveMichael on the TV show, Le Femme Nikita. He’s soft spoken and so sure of himself. I have all of the DVDs.

Okay. Now I’ll check andsee if you were paying attention. In the third paragraph above, did you noticethe type of women I write? They’re not your every day average heroine. So keepthat in mind.

After contemplating acouple other ideas, I decided to write a book about an assassin, but I wantedto twist it around and have the woman as the coldblooded killer. Yet, at thesame time, she needed to be sympathetic. Strange thing, I’ve found femalereaders are more forgiving of a man who kills, if it is perceived as riddingthe world of scum, than they are of a woman doing the same. Anyway, I like heroineswho are strong as their heroes. Of course, no matter how they try to emulatemen, their emotions get the best of them in the end. Thank goodness. That’swhen the romance really blooms and takes off.

Olivia St. Vincent is aperfect mate for Collin Ryker. He’s really more brains than brawn though he hasno problem defending himself when Olivia tries to kick his butt. Twice.

If you like action-packed,intense drama and hot scenes with some moments of sarcasm throw in and then Ibelieve you’ll enjoy Circle of Desire.

But that’s only thebeginning of the series. In the first half of next year, you can find out in Circle of Danger how Collin’s brotherhandles the rebellious woman he’s been forbidden to touch…well, that is, untilnow.

Now, let’s have some fun. I love lists, and thought you might enjoy the top ten clues that you're readingtoo much Romantic Suspense.

10. You suspect every grieving widower of having "a hand" in thedeath of his wife.

9. You see a report of a wreck on the interstate and shout at the television"the boyfriend did it!"

8. You believe you can solve any crime if your husband was a sexy policedetective.

7. You suspect the clean-cut guy in your office of being a potential serialkiller because he has "that look."

6. You eye the small sunken area in the backyard and wonder if a body isburied there.

5. You refuse to go to children’s birthday parties because every time aballoon pops, you duck.

4. You feel a need to explain to the checkout boy that you really use theblack plastic bags for leaves.

3. You leave the shower curtains open during a shower.

2. You drive past your house believing the car in the rearview mirror istailing you.

1. You become worried that your husband is plotting your death because he’sbeing too nice after watching a marathon of Cold Case.

What clues have you found in your life? But really, can we ever read too much? No!

Re-Run #7

2012-01-09T05:00:00.000-06:00

This is from the wonderful and kind Christy Reece's blog October 25, 2011. She has a great following and writes some great books. Be sure to check her out.

Why I Like To Write Romances Especially Hot Ones?

You probably can’t believe this but there are people outthere who hate romance books. And to make it worse, a lot of those people arewomen. Yeah. Weird, isn’t it? I have a hard time understanding it too.

Considering women are naturally emotional creatures (duh!), andthe best romances are filled to the brim with all kinds of feelings, you wouldthink all of us would love them.

To me, romances have so much going for them along with allthe mushy stuff. First and foremost, they guarantee you a happy ending. Then theyoffer numerous genres such as general contemporary, historical, suspense,paranormal, fantasy, science fiction, young adult (aww! puppy love) and thenewest, horror. Yep. You read it right. The slasher, chill ‘em, thrill ‘em withblood and gore type. Hey, I don’t write it. I merely report it.

Now when it comes to my preferred reading material, I wantthem to be hot. It can be one of the first six above, but they need to bescorching with no bedroom door shut. I do read some young adult, but please leavethe sex out. Even though they have the word adultin their genre description, most of the characters are younger thaneighteen. The heavy kissing and petting can get a little steamy and that’sokay. Normal teenager stuff.

So when it came to writing my own book, it made sense Iwould write hot. I love reading a book where the hero and heroine have a hardtime keeping their hands to themselves. I love how they have a problem thinkingabout anything but each other. When they finally get together, it’s soexplosive, that the pages become singed by their lovemaking. Though they maycall it having sex or by some other provocative word, we know what’s going tohappen. It will be making love by theend of the book.

That’s what happens to Collin in the beginning of Circle of Desire. He has to pat downOlivia, check her for a locator beneath her skin. And for him to do that, shemust be naked. He finds he can’t control his hands, and her enthusiasticreaction is a big turn on for him. Before he knows it, he … wait! You have toread the book. I will say that he’s a gentleman and keeps his clothes on. I dolove to torment others with little teasing tidbits.

What I like best about that scene is that later you find outCollin is all about controlling his emotions. And every time Olivia is nearby,he’s so turned on, he’s nearly helpless. So he tries to twist the attractioninto a means to manipulate her. But as time goes by, you can’t help but wonderif it didn’t backfire.

So to answer the question in the title of this post, I likethem hot because it heightens not only the passionate love scenes, but all theemotions between the hero and heroine throughout the book.

So what are some ofyour favorite hot books?

Speaking Of Pain In The . . . Reviews.

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Every author has a love - hate relationship with reviews. We love them when the reviewer loves our book. We hate them when the reviewer has issues. Hahaha! I couldn't help that. But we all know a lot of how we feel about a book has to do with our own issues.

If you're reading a book that the hero has the same name of your ex, you may have a hard time liking the story. Or if you had a bad relationship with a guy who bossed you around or maybe go as far as being abusive, then you're less likely to like Alpha heroes, especially those that are a little rough around the edges.

Or you're in bad mood and the book you picked up leans toward romantic comedy, you'll think it's stupid and not funny. Or you don't like sex (that's so sad) and someone recommends a book with some graphic bedplay/wallplay/tableplay/etc. in it, you'll think the heroine is a slut and hate the book. (Though that's ironic as it usually takes two in a romance. So the guy is a slut too. Only fair to call him that if you're going to call the women names.)

So as a reader, I've always kept all those things in mind when I read a book review. Especially if the reviewer cannot give me a really good reason not to want to read it. If she talks about being too much sex and not enough plot, I'm more likely to buy it for sure. I do love hot books. Thus why I write them. If he talks about a too stupid to live heroine or hero (yes, they do exist too), then I may want to read the first few pages before deciding. You know I love Alpha males, but if I read one that talks like a cave man, I'll turn it down in a heartbeat. You my mate, you spread legs, you mine. Grunt. Grunt. Can't stand those. I don't mind the quiet and silent types -- oops, I've gotten off track here. Off Alphas and back to reviews.

I guess I'm trying to tell everyone, if you see a book with mostly one stars (cups, hearts, arrows or whatever) on a review and very few or none of the larger numbers, then sure the book may have a problem. But when you see a few or a good handful, don't worry especially when they're mixed with many of the larger quantity stars. Just read the first few pages. If you don't find the way the hero or heroine acts interesting, then chances are the book isn't for you.

Flawed Heroes and Their Pain

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Nah, I'm not talking about BDSM. You know, those tortured heroes that try to better themselves and sometimes fail. Well, at least they believe they fail. Love those stories. Anyway, Christy Reece is talking about them over at Fresh Fiction. Check it out.

When it comes to tortured heroes (and heroines), I can't wait until you get to read Ryker and Marie's story. Talk about a rough childhood. They had it in spades, but I must say they turned out to be rather well-rounded adults in the long run. They're perfect for each other.

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The Start Of A New Year

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Like everyone, I've been thinking of what goals I met last year and the ones I plan for this year.

Last year I planned to finish an old vampire 1st person book. I did. Actually, I finished two books this year. Note that the one that sold was already completed. Like every year prior, I planned to get published. I finally did. At the first of 2011, I knew I needed to save my money that I usually spent on conferences and spend it on a family vacation instead. I did. I planned to quit spreading myself thin (day job, family, writing) and end my obligations with my writers group by the end of 2011. I did. 2010 had been a stellar year in contests (5 finals - that almost half of those entered; plus there were a couple questionable on how they scored me - see posts in 2010 about those) for me and I had hoped to do it again this year. With the sale, that knocked me out of many of the contests (no true lost there. LOL!) but I still was able to final in three (two were with a historical romance). So I guess that last plan was still a positive. A sale - technically two sales - trumps all.

This year, I plan to finish two books and a novella. I would love to finish the historical someway this year too. It's not top priority though.

I plan to go to at least two conferences: Silken Sands (already paid the fee) and RWA National (that one comes due 1/26). M&M in October is still up for debate.

I plan to continue on my weight loss program and hopefully will be in good shape by July and that includes taking care of my body with physicals and check ups.

I plan not to sweat the small stuff in life and enjoy every moment of being published. To continue to help others to become published. The traditional way - not self-published. That's a totally different post I'll do later this month maybe. I'll keep in mind that writing a book that entertains is the key to success. So that leads into my next one.

I plan to write, write, and write along with improve my craft. My books aren't literary masterpieces. They're written for entertainment and to make people sigh and feel hopeful about romance in their own lives.

There are a few more plans (goals) I'm sure that haven't come to mind at this moment, but I can always add them later.

Re-Run #6

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This one was at a buddy's blog, Patricia Preston from October 23, 2011.

Thanks, Patricia, for asking me to post on your blog. I’ve always loved hanging out with you.

If you were about tobe served your last meal, what would be on your plate?

Oh, that’s easy. Sesame chicken from The Palace inTrussville, AL. Their other dishes are wonderful as my daughters try differentones when they go with me, and I take a bite of theirs. Several times I’veplanned to order something else, but I always order the same dish. And onSaturdays they have egg drop soup that is delicious along with their crispy eggrolls. Now I’m hungry for it.

If you could be anyfictional character (books, movies) who would you be?

I’m going to cheat a little on the question because I wouldlove to be Renee Russo. She’s not fictional, of course, but she played somegreat fictional characters. Who can forget her in Lethal Weapon Three when sheand Mel Gibson’s characters fought over who had the most scars. Or The ThomasCrown Affair, when her character falls in love with Pierce Brosnan’sbillionaire thief. Oh, my, lucky girl. Heck, lucky guy too.

While writing Olivia in Circle of Desire, I thought of Ms.Russo. Many of her roles were of strong women with strong men. She always holdsher own. Olivia does the same.

You’ve just beenhanded a one-way ticket to where?

To Seattle. I love the city and its atmosphere. Somethingthat proves not all characters are like their authors. Olivia disliked Seattleand the rain as she couldn’t wait to move on to her next job in Denver. Butevery time I’ve visited, I’ve found something more to love. The relaxed atmosphere,the coffee shops where everyone has a book opened at their tables. The peopleare polite and nice. I often teased the people I know there that they’remisplaced southerners.

If I were rich, I would have a summer home there as too manyof my family members live in Alabama for me to move away permanently.

What is your guiltypleasure?

I’ve been on a diet for four months so all of my guiltypleasures are centered on food. The sesame chicken I mentioned earlier andmalted milk balls. Every since I was a kid that has been one of my bigweaknesses. I usually settle forWhoppers, but my favorite is from Brach’s. Must. Stay. Away. From. Candy.Aisle.

It’s raining men!What kind of men?

Oh that’s easy. I like all shapes and sizes. In several ofmy unpublished books, I have men under six foot to those as tall as six fivewith coal black hair to sandy blond.

In Circle of Desire, the hero looks like a young HughJackman. For some of the other fellows, I thought of Dwayne “The Rock” Johnsonand Vin Diesel. There’s even a PierceBrosnan as one of the older guys in Circle of Danger that’s coming out nextyear.

Do you still rememberyour first kiss?
Wow! I haven’t thought about it for years. I guess my firstreal kiss was at the age of twelve. I was very mature (I thought). My cousinset me up with his girlfriend’s brother. The four of us met at the movies. Itwas 2001: Space Odyssey. Yes. I’m really telling my age now. Anyway, he kissedme, and I remembered I didn’t know what to do with my hands. You know, themovies (at the time) didn’t really show that. It was always a close up of thecharacters’ faces, and I never paid any attention to where they placed theirhands. Needless to say, my cousin teased me about waving my hands in the air.

What do you love most about being a writer?

Making stories up. Creating a life for people I’ve never metbut know so well. Meeting people with a similar drive to become published andbeing successful at it. You know, writers have voices in their heads recitingfascinating stories that needs repeating with ink and paper. It so nice to knowI’m not alone.

I think writers are open minded, willing to find somethingredeemable even in the bad boys of the world or something frightful in those toogood to be true girls. Writers look at all the angles and find beauty or horrorin the oddest places.

Being a romance writer is even more special. We are eternaloptimists with our happily ever afters. I wouldn’t want it any other way.

Re-Run #5

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Here's one from October 18, 2011 that was at Reader Girls blog.

Thank you for asking me to visit your blog. I love seeingfamilies reading together. My reading gene came from my dad and his dad. Then Ipassed it on to one of my daughters. We keep hoping to bring the collegestudent into the fold once she graduates. Then again, she’s a professionalstudent. So we have no idea when that will happen. She has promised to read mybook. Isn’t that sweet? But we do plan to have a defibrillator nearby when shedoes. She’s destined to have a heart attack when she reads certain scenes in“Mom’s” book.

Your question to me was how does it feel to compete with established writers?

Wow! That’s really a good question. I guess I’ve neverreally thought of my becoming published as a competition with other authors.Maybe because I’m aware of the vast opportunities to take one story and turn itinto a hundred directions. Over the years, I’ve heard we basically have acertain number of plots to write. Seven to ten are the most common quantitiesgiven. A good link to go to that explains this is at http://www.ipl.org/div/farq/plotFARQ.html.

With those basic plots, we have an indefinite number ofstories to tell. Since everyone has their own way of speaking, in this case,writing a story, we can have thousands, even millions of authors and never hearthe same story, especially word for word. Plus each reader has their own special needinside that drives them to purchase certain type of stories. I personally loveforced marriage plots, contemporary or historical, along with anythinginvolving spies and assassins. The lasttwo are why I wrote CIRCLE OF DESIRE. Most authors do write what they want toread. Makes sense, doesn’t it?

Then readers want their need fulfilled more than once ayear. Some have a monthly, weekly, and for those fast readers, a dailyaddiction. My addiction can be seen in the stack of twenty novels waiting in myshelves to be read and the same number downloaded on my Nook^TM.

What I’m getting at is there’s room for many authors.Some who will be an instantaneous best-selling author (al la Stephenie Myer)and others who’ll take years to reach that same point of success (thefabulously talented Sherrilyn Kenyon). Of course, the publishing world has roomfor all of us in between authors.

I’m sure some authors feel they must compete by way ofhaving a higher advance, more books sold, and larger perks from theirpublishers. The only place I will probably consider it as competition, and Imight even have a chance, is by entering the RITA^® Awards, theRomance Writers of America’s contest for published authors. That’s like tryingfor an Oscar^® if you’re in the movie industry.

Oh, if you’re wondering how the established authors feel?I have to say most of those I speak with are happy for me and have been helpfulin providing quotes for my books, advice on promotion, and encouragement ingoing forward. Authors have broad minds — thus why they write such greatstories — and often see the big picture. What is good for one is good for all.You know those two authors I mentioned earlier? If not for Sherrilyn paving theway in making vampires cool, would Stephenie’s book have been as successful?I’m sure many people have different opinions about that, but since I’m the onewriting this …

My advice for those writers who are working towardpublication, keep writing, send your manuscripts to editors and agents, listento those who’ve been in the trenches, and continue to learn your craft. Butalways follow your heart. Besides, there is plenty of room for you too. I’ll bewaiting to read your book. If it is one with spies and assassins forced tomarry, I’ll be in reader heaven. Wait! That’s a great idea. Got to go and jotsome notes.

Always remember, be sure to make time for reading.

Re-Run #4

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This one is from I Just Wanna Sit Here and Read blog, October 20, 2011. It was a lot of fun to write. Hope you enjoy it.

You’re living on the edge by allowing me free rein in deciding what topost. But I’ll behave and do what I love to do more often than I like to admit.Make up lists. Yes. My OCD is showing. To make it a little less dry, I’vedecided to let my two main characters in Circle of Desire, Olivia St. Vincentand Collin Ryker, help out.

Carla: Olivia,what are the top five traits you look for in a hero?

Olivia: Well, let’s see. I neverimagined falling for a man who talked in a near whisper most of the time.Though I must admit, when he talks, a room full of arguing operatives shuts upin seconds. That’s a man who can lead.

Carla: Sonumber one would be a commanding voice.

Olivia: More like number five. Thevoice helps get my engine running, but it’s not number one.

Carla: Olivia,don’t forget this needs to stay PG. So no physical traits to be included in thelist.

Olivia: I’m hurt. You don’t trust me?

Carla: Let’ssay I know you too well.

Olivia: Very well then, let’s get toit. Trait number four: a hero must be comfortable with handling weapons of alltypes. You know how I love guns, especially sniper rifles, the more powerfulthe better.

Carla: So anexpert in weaponry. I guess, when it comes to a trait, it would fall in thecategory of being protective. That would be number four. Three more to go.

Olivia: A hero must be honorable. Hewould never take advantage of those weaker.

Carla: Nowwe’re getting somewhere. I agree totally. That would be number three. So you think Collin is honorable?

Olivia: Humph! Who said we’re talking about him? I thoughtyou wanted to know about heroes.

Carla: Collinis certainly hero material. He could’ve killed you instead of bringing you intohis organization, the OS.

Olivia: He could’ve tried.

Carla: Olivia?

Olivia: Oh, okay. Yes. He handled itrather well the time I held the sniper rifle on him and accused him ofbetraying me to The Circle, though he did eventually hand me over to them.

Carla: Youknow he didn’t have a choice. Your ex-boss would’ve killed the two OSoperatives he held hostage.

Olivia: Yeah, yeah. Don’t beat meover the head with it. Collin’s all noble and a bag of chips.

Carla: You soundalmost jealous.

Olivia: Everyone thinks he’s God’sGift to the universe and I’m evil incarnate. Wouldn’t you get tired of beingpainted like that?

Carla: I’msorry. You’re right. Let’s continue on with our list.

Olivia: Alright. Number two. Hmm, this is gettingmore difficult. I can’t include body parts?

Carla: No.Physical. Traits.

Olivia: Don’t get snippy. What is itthat you call a hero who’s a push over when tears are involved?

Carla: Maybe you’re thinking compassionate.

Olivia: Sure. Compassionate. I likehow it goes along with passionate.

Carla:Ooolivia.

Olivia: That’s not a body part.Geez. You’re no fun.

Carla: Let’smove to number one. What’s the most important trait?

Olivia: Easy. He must beintelligent.

Carla: Smart.I agree.

Olivia: Collin was smart enough tofall in love with me.

Carla: I thought we weren’t talking about Collin.

Olivia: Of course, the man’s got abig enough—

Carla:Oooliva!

Olivia: Now who’s being naughty? Iwas saying he had a big enough egowithout me adding to it.

Carla: Okay. Go over there while I talk with Collin.

Olivia: Fine.But don’t believe a word he says.

Carla: Shh!Behave, Olivia. Collin, thank you for being so patient. It’s only fair to ask you a similar question.What are the top five traits you look for in a heroine? Starting with numberfive.

Collin: Definitely confidence. Awoman must know her own mind and be sure of her abilities.

Carla: Much like Olivia, wouldn’t you say?

Collin: She’s certainly confident inher skill with guns.

Carla: Why doI get a feeling you’re saying she isn’t always sure of herself?

Collin: At times, her bravado can bean act.

Carla: I see.She acts tough but is a softy inside.

Collin: That’s true though she hatesto admit it. Number four is adaptable.

Carla: Uh, I’mnot sure what you mean by that.

Collin: She understands the worldisn’t black and white. There’s a lot of gray. Sometimes what you believe istrue, isn’t.

Carla: Oh,okay. Like her believing The Circle were the good guys. That is, they were atone time, but had gone to the dark side you could say.

Collin: Yes.

Carla: I likehow you’re up front about Olivia being the heroine you’re describing.

Collin: She can be when she sets hermind to it.

Olivia: I heard that!

Carla: This isCollin’s turn! Go! Let us talk.

Collin: Number three isintelligence. A heroine needs not only brains but street smarts too.

Carla: I findthat interesting. Would you like tospeculate on why she placed it as number one for heroes?

Collin: No.

Carla: Wouldyou at least explain the sexy grin you’re wearing?

Collin: No.

Carla:Alrighty then. Let’s move on to number two.

Collin: Number two is a heroine mustbe loyal.

Carla: Loyal?You have to explain that one.

Collin: A heroine will sacrifice herselffor the greater good.

Carla: Oh, no,you didn’t. You didn’t pull the Buffy card.

Collin: I’m not sure of what youmean, but a heroine will stand by those she loves even when it might endangerherself.

Carla: Okay.You can have that one.

Collin: The top one is independence.There’s nothing sexier about a woman, than one who knows her own mind anddoesn’t need to lean on others, including a man, to achieve her goals.

Carla: Wow! Ilove hearing a man say that. When a man isn’t threatened by a woman knowing herown mind … wow! That’s sexy.

Collin: I’m taken.

Olivia: You tell her!

Carla: Uh-huh.I wasn’t … I didn’t mean .... Oh, heck.

Olivia: Come here, sugar, so I canshow you one of my goals.

Carla: Anyway,thanks to Olivia and Collin for helping me out. Quit that, you two! Forgoodness sakes, get a room.

I hope you learned a little about what it takes to be ahero or heroine, and maybe a little about the people whose story the Circle of Desire is about. I will warnyou the story is very hot, and the world they live in violent. A world filledwith assassins and betrayal. But even Olivia and Collin find a sanctuary fromall the craziness by loving each other.

Be sure to always make time for reading.

Re-Run #3

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Continuing my revisit to blog posts that I made on blog tours, here's the one from The Heart of the Dragon Den, October 20, 2011.

Tell us a bitabout yourself (50 words or less). It’s no surprise that I love to write as I grew up with a dad who lovedto entertain us with stories about his youth in a long ago era of lonely twolane highways and strong men protecting their families. With that rich history,I turned to writing romance.

How long haveyou blogged? What got you into blogging? Since 2006, I’ve been blogging with a handfulof members from my RWA chapter, Southern Magic, called Romance Magicians (http://romancemagicians.blogspot.com).People often ask, what’s up with all the references to magic? Birmingham,Alabama, where we’re based, is known as The Magic City. History tidbit time:between 1881 and 1920, the population of Birmingham grew so rapidly, itappeared like magic overnight.

Aswriters, the blog gives us an outlet to express our good and bad moments duringour path to becoming published and afterwards. We talk about everything, and nobig shock, most of it leads us back to our writing. One thing we make certainis that we keep our posts positive and we never pick on anyone. Well, maybeourselves. Well, and maybe men. Men are easy to pick on. Besides, they know welove them. That’s why we write about them so much.

Ialso post on my personal blog (www.carlaswafford.com)about three or four times a week. Most of the posts are short. Often they’rebits of information I come across or silly comments about working a day job andwriting at night.

What is your favorite genre of books? Oh, my, that’s hard to answer. Let me place them in order of what I prefer to read, and you can include the word romantic in front of each one: historical (medieval, in particular), comedy, suspense, and paranormal. Yes. I know, not having suspense as first is strange considering I write it. But many authors avoid reading too much of the same genre they write for fear of being influenced.

Do you like E-books or Print? Why? Actually, both. I enjoy the convenience of having several books in one simple e-reader (I own a Nook). It works out great when you’re traveling. I can’t tell you how many times my suitcase has been held up because they want to search it. Something about those rectangle shapes looking like blocks of C4.

Yet, I love holding a book, paper or hardback, and seeing it sit on my shelf afterwards. Makes me look smart. Hey, I need all the help I can get.

If you get writer’s block, how do you fight it? So far, I’ve been fortunate and haven’t experienced true writer’s block. I’ve had scenes where I get myself and one of the characters in a sticky situation and can’t figure a way out.

When that happens, I’ll work out the bios of each character and sketch out the plot. I use several different methods to fine tune it. One is Mary Buckham and Dianna Love’s book, Break Into Fiction (http://breakintofiction.com ). I was so lucky to attend their workshop. They use well-known movies to break down the characters’ motives. Once you answer the questions in the book, you can figure out where you need to go next with the story.

Another book I love to use is Blake Snyder’s Save The Cat. It’s actually a screenwriting book, but the author’s light tone and in-your-face simplicity makes it so easy to apply to writing a novel.

Once I start writing all the back story information and sorting out the plot, I usually find the solution that includes moving forward or even redoing earlier scenes.

Another way to fight writer’s block is to move from your usual spot that you sit to write. I have three favorite places. Most of the time you could find me at my antique secretary’s desk next to French doors with the blinds opened. Love sunshine. Another place is in my large leather recliner in front of the television. Yes. I can multitask. And last, on my back porch. Of course, that’s seasonal but something about fresh air makes my muse perk up and take notice.

If none of the above works, I’ll walk away from it for a few hours. That’s when I like to pull out my favorite DVDs: Le Femme Nikita (TV series), Lethal Weapon Four, Live Free or Die Hard, and several others. Or maybe re-read a favorite book: Christy Reece’s Rescue Me, Debra Webb’s Nameless, Victoria Dahl’s Talk Me Down, Jennifer Echols’s Going Too Far, or Sherrilyn Kenyon’s Night Play, and many, many more. One of the benefits (or curses, according to how you look at it) of having friends who are prolific, my favorites are a mile long.

I can’t tell you how many times a great solution came to me after watching a movie or two. Not that I use their plot, but maybe a character will do or say something that sparks an idea and before I know it, I’m back at my laptop pounding away.

Funny thing, in my current book, I was at a spot in the book where I didn’t want Olivia and Collin to get too mushy … that is, not yet. What could I do? I wasn’t ready for them to be all lovey-dovey. That’s best saved for the end. I didn’t want some silly argument to keep them from working together. Around that time, I was watching some program about explosives. Perfect. So I blew something up. I like how it revved up the tension. What did I blow up? You’ve got to the read the book.

Yes. I can be downright mean at times.

One point I would like to make, when I’m writing, I have no idea how the book will end, except I do know the hero and heroine will be in love and live happily ever after.

Now, the journey to that spot is an adventure I love writing.

On The Road Again

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I'm over at Mina Khan's blog talking about what inspires me. Come over and talk to me. You might win a copy of my book. Hey, I figure if I can't get people to buy it, I'll give them away. LOL!

Merry Christmas

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Re-Run #2

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This post was at Black Seductions on October 19, 2011. What I especially loved about this interview was the comments I received. Lots of them and some really interesting answers. Go and check them out. Oh, before I forget, some of the sites I'm sending you to are for people 18 and older. So if you're at work looking at them, be sure no one is around as they often have book covers that make mine look tame.

I deleted the blurb of the book, but the rest of the post is here. Be sure to FOLLOW them on Twitter: @BVSBooks .

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Thank you for inviting me to your blog. Like most authors, Ienjoy talking about my books and love the opportunity.

You had asked, “What steps did I take to make my heroinesomeone the reader would like?”

I find women like Olivia intriguing. She’s a different breedof heroine. Sure she kicks butt like many other heroines, yet she almost has aman’s mentality when she deals with death and sex. She’s cold, confident, andfocused until she completes her job. Afterwards, she looks around for a way tounwind with an anonymous partner.

Okay. All of that we can see in the beginning of the book.So we need to know what makes her tick. The best way for any author to do thisis by back story (background information about a character given in thenarrative) but no one wants to read a lot of narrative that doesn’t move theplot forward. That would actually be boring.

So as you read along, you’ll begin to see cracks in theshell she’s built. Small glimpses are revealed of a woman learning to deal witha past colored by abuse and neglect. From a trash bin baby to being raised in apoor orphanage, she refuses to feel sorry for herself. She’d learned to useevery weapon at her disposal, including her body.

We watch her kill her target and then moments later, herbody begins to give her telltale signs her job is getting to her. Her handshakes, her body trembles. Deep inside she understands why it happens, butfights it. She feels she has no other alternative. Her deadly skills are whatsaved her from certain death by the evil man who controls The Circle.

Let me show you an example.

She looked out the window at the crowd gathering at theend of the pier. She jerked her gaze away. Concentrate on anything but thefinished job. Think of the gun she loved to control. Think of the power sheheld. Think about sex. A strong, hard, hot male body always helped. Think aboutgetting away and planning the next job.

She reached out and caressed the two marks she’d made onthe butt of the rifle. Time for a third. Her fingers shook; tearsthreatened her composure. Drawing her hand into a fist, she took a few deepbreaths and then with well-practiced precision broke down the rifle and placedthe sections into her luggage. Another tremor started at her hand and vibrateddown her torso, before she knew it her whole body shook. Why couldn’t her bodycooperate? She’d done worse, been worse.

It’s truly amazing how a few words can make a difference.For me, I know anytime I read a romance, the heroine or/and hero are guaranteedto grow and change. I’ll keep reading, because if nothing else, I’m interestedin seeing how they change. One good example is Anita Blake in LaurellHamilton’s vampire series. I didn’t like Anita at first, but I kept readingexpecting change and she did — actually several times throughout the series.

Now back to CIRCLE OF DESIRE. Soknowing Olivia will change, I want to find out how she deals with finallycoming against a man who refuses to be manipulated by her sexuality. Collin realizesnothing about Olivia is dull. As he wonders one time in the book, she fascinated him. Like a snake charmerfascinated a cobra. Now the question was, was he the snake charmer or thecobra?

Though he gives in to her allure in the beginning, he fightshis attraction. Yet he actually uses it as a carrot for her good behavior. But it takes more for her to cooperate. So he usesthe one thing against her that reveals the goodness she hides from others. It’sher one weakness. What is that? Sorry. You’ll need to read the book to findthat out.

I’m such a tease.

Re-Runs of My Favorites

2011-12-23T05:05:00.000-06:00

I've been doing the blog tour thang on and off since October. Mostly off than on, but I've enjoyed every stop, some more than others. One thing about blogging elsewhere, even though I place a link here, people forget or blogs die or whatever. So I decided to repost them here. For the next few days you'll see them in full or partial and including links back to the original blog/post. But please comment here (better chance of me seeing it now).

Here's the first one at Among The Muses. (October 17, 2011.) A great interview/review website. And it's not just because they gave me such a good review or that I like the ladies who run it, but because the site is easy on the eyes and they keep it up. Gives you confidence in knowing that your work is respected when the site is professinal looking. Anyway, I always liked New Jersey people.

Oh, be sure to LIKE them on Facebook, FOLLOW them on Twitter and FRIEND them on GoodReads.

What inspired you to write thisbook?
One of my all-time favorite TV series was Le Femme Nikita and my go-to-book of Linda Howard’s is ALL THE QUEEN’S MEN. Both deal with mercenaries, spies and assassins, and I find them fascinating. When I was writing the hero, Collin, for CIRCLE OF DESIRE, I was channeling Michael, the dangerous über spy from Nikita. His soft spoken, yet deadly voice always sent delicious chills down my back to my … uh, I made sure to listen to hear every word he said. I wanted my book to have those layers of danger and sexiness filling every page.

Wasthere a character you enjoyed writing the most?

That’s almost like asking if you have a favorite child. How to choose? I guess that would be Olivia. She first comes off as if she couldn’t care less what anyone thinks of her. A good example is when it comes to her libido. She doesn’t understand the word restraint unless it refers to handcuffs. Though she acts cold and unaffected by what’s happening around her, she’s like a little girl trying to survive the only way she knows how, by making advances toward the man who decides if she lives or dies. For years, it has been the leader of The Circle, Theo. Now she’s under Collin’s control. Sex to her is a tool to control the men in her life. As she loves her sniper rifle because she can control every aspect of it with her touch, she wants to do the same with Collin. Only he knows he must be the carrot that encourages her to make the right decisions, in particular, to help him stop Theo from killing more of his operatives.

We usually never talk aboutvillains of books during interviews. Share with us who or what is theantagonist of your story.

Theo Palmer, the leader of The Circle, is the boogeyman mentioned often by the characters in the beginning of the book. He doesn’t show up until the worse moment in Olivia’s life, when Collin turns his back on her and returns her to Theo and most likely to her death.

In Theo’s delusional world, he believes he lives in the wrong century. He rules The Circle as his own medieval kingdom with fear and intimidation. He sees himself as a fatherly figure doling out punishments to his wayward children, a father who sleeps with young girls and eliminates those who disagree with him.

What was one of the mostinteresting things you learned in researching your book?

I had the pleasure of attending a workshop on guns and one of the speakers had worked with Blackwater, now called Xe, the largest U.S. private security contractor. He helped me improve CIRCLE OF DESIRE’s opening scene with Olivia waiting to kill her target. All of it is accurate except one element. He’d said that with “wet work” (assassin work), they would leave the rifle and walk out. I decided that Olivia loved the gun too much to leave it. So I had her break it down and take it with her. It was an exciting workshop, and the guy was in great shape!

What can readers expect nextfrom you?
In the first of half of 2012, the second book in The Circle series should be released. (I would like to mention that each book stands alone. No need to read them in order.) CIRCLE OF DANGER is Marie and Ryker’s story. You’ll meet them in the first book. She’s an ex-mistress of Theo’s and wants to prove she can be more than a bedmate to powerful men. While the new leader of The Circle, Ryker, scarred inside and out, struggles to protect her from the world as well as from himself. Oh, yeah. Tortured heroes make the best stories.

Whatis one particular aspect about the book that you want readers to take away fromthis interview?

CIRCLE OF DESIRE is a story that’s a little different than the usual romantic suspense. At least, I believe it’s different because Olivia makes no apologies for her job as the number one assassin for a mercenary group called The Circle. She’s cool and lethal and has her own special way of … let’s say, unwind from a job well-done. I think the readers will find her interesting as the story peels back the armor she hides behind to show a vulnerable woman needing someone to believe that she’s really a good person.

Excerpt from Chapter One

     He shoved off the bed and stood, shrugging his shoulders, pulling them back as he rotated his head. She heard joints popping. He stretched as if he’d finished a job and wanted to get the kinks out. Then he wiped her off his chin and looked her way with glittering eyes.
     She groaned. Oh, shit, he was so damn hot.
     He turned away.
     Shock sent a shiver through her. Was he finished? She admitted his technique was different and a little constraining for her taste, but she wanted more. She’d gotten a glimpse of his groin. Hell, yeah, she hadn’t been the only one wanting more. The impressive bulge against his trousers promised he had the right equipment needed to do the job. But first things first, he needed to let her go.
     “Okay. You’ve had your fun. Un-cuff me.” She jingled the handcuffs.
     He picked up his tie and slipped it into his jacket as he sat next to her on the bed.
     “No. I don’t think so. Not yet,” he said in his usual soft soul-sucking voice.
     Heat traveled down her torso and centered on the area now tender from his enthusiastic treatment. She liked how he didn’t raise his voice. She’d liked it on the plane, though she’d thought it was from wanting to keep their polite conversation private. But she now realized it was normal for him, if she could call him normal in any sense of the word. What man didn’t take what was freely offered?
     “What do you want?” She narrowed her eyes at him.
     When he kept quiet and lifted his chin, she kicked out. In a lightning quick move, he caught her ankles and then threw his torso across her knees. In seconds, he had her feet fastened together with his tie. A snap of his wrist brought a sheet off the other bed, and he wrapped it around her feet. If she’d planned to kick him, the cushion would make it no more than a nudge.
     “Enough already,” she protested. “Who are you?”
     He continued to ignore her. Her stomach tightened, and she swallowed to keep the fear down. Was he an operative out for revenge? Had she killed a friend or a brother of his? Which organization was he with? Blinded by lust, what had she missed?
     “Who do you work for? Who are you?” she asked once again.
     Those eerie amber eyes caught hers. “I’m your worst nightmare, Ms. Olivia St. Vincent.”
     A chill swept her body. He’d called her by her real name.

Little Surprises

2011-12-22T16:23:00.002-06:00

I'm over at Gnome de Plume talking about Little Surprises in books among other things. Come on over and comment. You might win a copy of my book.

Say What?

2011-12-21T20:20:00.000-06:00

Am I the only one in the world that didn't know Walgreens sold . . . uh . . . "Sexual Wellness" items on line? Blew my mind. Click here to check it out. Now for me to check their prices. Ooops! Did I type that?

Little Presents

2011-12-20T20:14:00.001-06:00

You know sometimes the best presents are the small ones. After updating iTunes's software on my desktop, I decided to check on my book. Yep. My book can be found on iTunes. Cool, isn't it? Anyway, last time I looked there were no reviews or ratings. My book looked so sad and lonesome.

Well, there is now. Fifty-six ratings and three reviews. Thank goodness the reviews were awesome! And I didn't know any of the people. YAY!

That was a nice little Christmas present to me. Thank you whoever you are with an iPod or iPad or iPhone!

Talking About Recipes

2011-12-19T12:10:00.002-06:00

Yep. The non-domesticated woman is talking about a girly-girly subject. But most of you know why. I've lost a lot of weight and hope to continue to do so. Come and see what I have to say about it on Chicklets In The Kitchen blog. See you there!

Book Clubs

2011-12-16T20:40:00.006-06:00

I thought I would mention here. If you're a member of a book club and interested in reading my book, email me and let's talk. I could possibly hook you up with some copies. :-)

Break Out The Champagne!

2011-12-11T19:09:00.001-06:00

WOW! I finished Circle of Danger today. Whew! The last scene and half took it out of me. Not so much the action but all the emotion and trying to not be sappy. I can't tell you how many books I scan over the last few pages. The sappy emotion drives me nuts. I guess that why I aways like to set up the next book during that scene. You still get the I Love Yous in without making your teeth hurt.. :-)

Now to send off to my betas. They have their work cut out for them. Though I was careful and had edited on the way, I know there are probably spots that need work. They'll catch places where I don't tell enough info or drag it out. Looking forward to what they have to say. Considering this time they will be doing it for a published author. LOL!!!!

A Little Update Mash Up

2011-12-09T22:34:00.001-06:00

The week has slipped by and it's the weekend again. Thank goodness. I need to get back to working on my book. So close. So very close to the end. I feel like I've been saying that for months, but this is REALLY close. Two more scenes. Technically, one and half scenes, as I'm half through with one. The climatic one at the end. Then the next scene will be the wrap up (Smoochie..I love you...No, I love you more) and the set up for the third book. That will be Rex and A.J.'s book.

I have several things in mind for it but mainly I want it to be little humorous. Not to the extent of romantic comedy, but a lighter than the last two. Circle of Desire is a dark, gritty book as a couple of the reviews mentioned. Circle of Danger is a hot, HOT book with lots of sexual tension and, I have to say it, lots of sex. It couldn't be helped. As you will know if you read the first book and came to the end of it. The first chapter of the second book is after the ending.

Whenever someone claims they read my book, but then ask, "What is your next book going to be about?" That gives them away. LOL! Got ya! If you had read it, you would know.

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I'm planning another blog tour. Getting the title of my book out there is important with so many people ordering e-readers for Christmas. Of course, many will order 99 cent books. But how many of those cheap book will get read? If you spend $3.99 for a book, you're more likely to read it, right?Oh, if you know someone looking for someone to interview, have them contact me.

Go to the link for my website on the right and have them click on the envelope. Send me an email. The dates I'm looking for are December 20 through January 1. December 22 and 26 are now filled.

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Like lots of people nowadays, I'm cutting back on my expenses. Next year, I plan to go to two or three conferences. I don't want to charge anything to my credit card, so I've been saving. This year was the first year in over eight I haven't gone to one. Too broke. The family vacation was all that I could afford.

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Another cut back is my RWA chapter duties. On January 1, I won't have a duty to perform for the first time in eight years. It actually feels good. I've done my best to help the chapter. As I've mentioned before on my blog (probably a couple years ago), I've been the president (2 yrs), vice president (3 yrs), membership chair (1 yr), webmaster (six yrs), PAN Liaison (1 yr - though we later found out the person had to be published and I wasn't at that time), conference chairperson (1 yr), Luncheon co-chairperson (two yrs), Milestones and Recognition (2 yrs), Linda Howard Award of Excellence coordinator (5 yrs - 6 if you count the year I consulted and ended up having to finish it - long story) and during that time I was the newsletter editor for another RWA chapter for 1 yr(maybe two, I can't remember now).

At the time I became active in 2002 (Chapter member since 1998; RWA member since 1993), we had a little over 30 members, now we have between 60 to 70 members. With the new Board in place, I do believe we will grow like wild fire. They are energtic and think outside the box.

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The last cut back I'm planning is how much time I spend on the internet. If you've been following my blog for any length of time, I no longer blog every single day like I use to. I caught myself blogging more than I was writing books. So weekends and the occasional exciting news that happen during the week is all I will be doing for a while. I plan to do the same with Facebook. Email will get out of hand if I only checked it on the weekends, plus that's how my editor and agent contact me. I had over a hundred emails alone today (most are on digest except my Avon author loop - they have some great discussions).

So I plan to check my email before I go to bed and during the day at work but not when I first get home. That's going to be writing time. So if you need me urgently and have my phone number (only family and friends have that), you can text me.

Now I will give you a hint, (don't make me regret it), if you follow me on Twitter, you can send me a tweet direct and it'll show up as a text on my phone. Be sure this is in cases of something important you need to tell or alert me. Don't misuse it as I have no qualms in blocking your butt.That's all the news for now I can remember.

Circle of Desire Book Trailer!

2011-12-04T13:47:00.001-06:00

Merry Christmas!

2011-12-03T22:23:00.000-06:00

Today, my writers group had their Christmas party at my house. Check out the highlights.

Renaissance Men

2011-12-02T17:00:00.000-06:00

One thing that’s been surprising about my book being published is the number of men who are willing to read it. It is a romance. So far I know of two men who have read it or they said they did. And a couple others are claiming to be reading it or plan to read it. That’s cool.

No, I didn’t ask them about the hot scenes. Funny thing is I like hearing what the women think about them. Usually, that consists of “Oh, wow! That was hot!” But I would be a little uncomfortable discussing any aspect of those scenes with a man, except for my husband. Now if I could get him to read it (NOT!), I’d gladly talk about them.

Want Your Stories Vanilla Or With Sprinkles and Swirls?

2011-12-01T17:00:00.000-06:00

My kids love to tease me on how I love for the interior walls of my house to be white. So I gave in, and my husband and I painted the living room, kitchen, hallway and bathroom a sandy tan color. They turned out rather nice.

The reason I mention this is I was thinking today about some of the things people say in my book's reviews. I know. I'm to ignore the reviews and write what I like. And I do love my story. If someone else had written Circle of Desire, I would've placed the book on my keeper shelf and look for more books from that author.

Let me tell you why.

I love books where the hero and heroine are different from the hundreds of other books out there. I like the guy to be really good and really bad and all in the same book. He's not vanilla. He doesn't always do the right thing for the right reason. He's human. He's influenced by what has happened to him in the past and what is going on in his life at the time and how he wants the future to be. The only part of the book I want to be the same as all other romances is that when he falls in love, he falls hard. That helps the happy ending to be believable.

The heroine needs to be strong but not bitchy. She voices her opinion when and how she likes. She doesn't bite her tongue, unless she wants the guy to stick his foot into his own mouth. She can stand toe to toe with the hero and still come out being her own person. BUT, I want the book to be believable when it comes to life. I know that when a woman and a man are trained in martial arts, most men can beat women. Not always, but men are made to be strong. That's just the way they're built. (THANK YOU, GOD!) I don't want my men to be dumb as I want the women to be smart. So women are smart enough not to try to beat a guy with strength but with her brains. And sometimes, when the woman falls in love, she doesn't mind the man being stronger. There is nothing wrong with that. I want my woman (beginning to sound weird, but you know I'm talking about the heroines I write in my books. LOL!) to love being a woman. She doesn't want to be a man. She can do a man's job, but still be a woman at the end of the day and be happy about it.

None of my heroines are abused by the heroes. Especially in Circle of Desire, Olivia loves to play rough with Collin. She likes that he gets turned on when they fight. They're not hitting each other in the face. Actually, it's more like wrestling, with one tripping the other and a lot of rubbing of one body against the other. She's not afraid of Collin. She knows he's a good guy having to do a hard job.

If you want goody two-shoes heroes and heroines who whine about how their high school sweetheart cheated on them or how their daddies didn't get them their ponies when they were little, go read the vanilla books. Please don't read mine.

Or just grow up.

[By the way, if you like Circle of Desire, please go to Amazon and Barnes & Noble and/or anywhere you can rate it and do so. And if you feel like it, say one sentence of something positive. If you didn't like it, then why in the heck are you reading my blog? LOL!]

What A Start!

2011-11-30T19:23:00.001-06:00

After several days of rain, this afternoon turned out to be beautiful. Hopefully it will continue as my writers group's Christmas party is Saturday. People are more likely to show up on pretty days.

Monday as I drove into work, I noticed a police car had pulled over a driver. The driver hadn't completely pulled off the road. Half the car was blocking the right lane of a four lane highway. After I had passed the cars and was about to top the hill, I saw a man huddled in a light jacket with a knit cap pulled over his ears walking along the road down toward the cars. In one hand was a plastic jug with what looked like gas. Then I realized the officer hadn't pulled the guy over, but the fellow had ran out of gas half way up the hill. The officer was most likely tagging the car to be towed and protecting others from running into it. So that poor fellow had ran out of gas, walked in the rain a 1/2 mile to the gas station and was returning to find his car being ticketed. Geez! I felt so sorry for him. That was one hell of a way to start the week.

And The Beat Goes On!

2011-11-25T14:27:00.001-06:00

I've got less than 50 pages to go and I'll be finish with my second book in The Circle series. As soon as I finish, I'll hand it over to my beta readers. Usually I'll keep it and read outloud before handing to them. But I've been editing along the way - thus one of the reasons why it's taking so long to write - and I'm hoping anything they find wrong has more to do with needing more explanations or clearing up confusing sentences.

While my beta readers are doing their thang, I'll start on book three. I've got several ideas, including the ending. That's nothing unusual, but I more often than not change the ending by the time I get to that point. Of course, all my books end happily ever after, but the HOW changes.

Hope everyone had a happy Thanksgiving or at least a good Thursday. I've been writing as much as possible, but to break up the writing, I've been working on a new website. Yes. The fourth one this year. I didn't like the latest because it became so messy and dark. It was to be simple and became complicated. Bad habit of mine.

Anyway, check it out when you have time and let me know if it is easier to pull up on your computer and easier to read.

www.carlaswafford.com

Here Are My Bookshelves

2011-11-21T21:40:00.001-06:00

Avery Flynn had a good idea with her tour of her bookshelves. Being a lover of books, I find others' taste to be interesting. So here's mine. History and romance appear to be my passion. LOL! No surprise there, eh?

Of course, I'm a writer and not a camera-person. So be careful watching it if you don't like rollercoasters. If you decide to do this too, let me and Avery know. We would love to see it.

Me Shy?

2011-11-20T16:18:00.001-06:00

For those who know me, know that I'm not shy. I try not to be loud and obnoxious and hopefully I'm not. But when it comes to talking to strangers, I usually have no problem. For example, today I needed some padded envelopes to mail out more books that commenters had won. So I visited the local Wal-Mart.

I try my best to not go there more than six times a year. Why? Because 1) the store is more often than not crowded, 2) there is so much to choose from, you spend more than you plan, and 3) it takes freaking forever to get out of there.

Well, there I go before the church crowd arrives. The store wasn't crowded. Score one for Carla. Then I go straight to the office supplies and pick up several inexpensive bubble padded envelopes. Score two for Carla. She's going to make it out of the store in record time with only what she needs!

Yeah, right.

Beings a book-aholic, I stopped to see what was on the shelves. Two ladies were talking about what they love to read. Suspense with romance in it. LOL!

Something I do often whenever I'm near books, I point out Deborah Webb's and Paula Graves's books and tell the ladies they both live in Alabama. They're excited. I then tell them of a few more authors (Lynn Raye Harris) who write other genres. Of course, before you know it, I pull out my bookmarks and hand one to each lady. And I also tell them about our luncheon (FREE BOOKS!).

You know, it's fun talking to people who love books, especially romance ones. :-)

Oh, you're wondering, did I score three? Nope. In fact, I was in such a good mood afterwards, I went back through the store and picked up several things "I needed" and finally got out of there two hours later. No. I won't tell you how much I spent, but it was more than I had planned.

HAYWIRE, The Movie

2011-11-18T05:00:00.000-06:00

Is it me or is this channeling a little bit of Olivia in Circle of Desire? LOL! If not, it will be a lot like another heroine you will hopefully get to see after Circle of Danger. It's the new movie coming out January 20 in the U.S. Check out all the big names.

Something To Think About

2011-11-17T05:00:00.000-06:00

One of the drawbacks (only a few) about being published is that anyone can review your book. A site that's popular with many readers is GoodReads. If I was only a reader, I would love this site. Great suggestions from friends and family and even some strangers. BUT, everyone can also post a review and several booksellers pull the reviews from there. Just as Amazon has everyone and his sister and brother reviewing. And at both sites you always get one or two people who LOVE giving the lowest rating or say distasteful things about a book. They take such glee in it. You can tell. Because why would you read another book of an author's if you hated their first one, no less two or three more?

Thankfully no one has been truly ugly about my book but I've seen some harsh language on some of my favorite books from authors like Anne Stuart and Susan Elizabeth Phillips. I think both of them are wonderful writers. Sure, I've liked some of their books better than others, but that has more to do with personal taste than with them doing anything wrong.

Anyway, with the industry being small as it is, I won't ever enter into Goodreads a book that is less than five stars. Just doesn't serve any purpose. Others do and truthfully I don't have problem with them having an opinion different than mine, but it's the hateful words that bother me.

I will say I've learned a few things about reviewers. When they're on Goodreads, if they haven't set their profile to private, I'll look at their reading list. I'm amazed when I see they don't really read romantic suspense (maybe have five or six of them listed). So I'm not surprise they give mine a low rating. They don't really read RS. Or if they have lots of RS and all of them are rated low. HELLO! You obviously need to find another genre to read. So far, it's helped me get over a couple of low ratings.

If you're on Goodreads, look around at the overall ratings on your favorite books. It's amazing how low their ratings are. I swear someone loves bringing down those who hit the New York Times best selling lists.

Side note: I wish Goodreads wouldn't let those who have a private profile do reviews and rate books be added into the rating system. Who knows what the person is really up to? I'm cynical enough to believe some people will use it to bring down ratings on books for possibly less than honest reasons. Just my opinion.

Then on Amazon, if you see someone rate a book low while several others are high, or even the opposite, click on the reviewers' names. Amazon gives you their stats on what they've reviewed. It's amazing how many of the self-published books with five stars will often have people who've only reviewed that book or only that author's books. How do we say family and friends? That's a dead giveaway.

That's why I don't ask family and friends to write a review on my books. I do have one friend on Goodreads who did, but she reviews several other authors too. And she meant what she wrote about all of them including mine. And she doesn't say ugly things. I didn't ask her for a written review.

So by checking out that info, that's how I handle THOSE type of reviews. Breaking it down helps a lot.

Little Green Monsters

2011-11-16T05:00:00.000-06:00

A few years ago, the marvelous Lyn Stone spoke at our RWA chapter meeting about becoming published and the unexpected situations that come up. One of those was how some friends react to you becoming published. I was really surprised that she had a friend act ugly about her becoming published as that friend didn’t write and Lyn is such a sweetheart. That is, that’s the way I remember it. I would’ve understood another writer ‘friend’ becoming jealous. It’s hard for us all to hold back that green monster when a writer friend becomes published with their first book or hit the NYT best selling list or quit work to write full time. A true friend will fight back that monster and wish their friend congratulations (and mean it).

Even after listening to her presentation, I was still surprised by a couple of my non-writing friends. Thankfully more than not were happy for me and just as excited as I was by my sale. The catty remarks about me having money and being able to quit work (neither has happened), I fended off with humor and then later with serious information. Then it got to the point anytime I would mention something about my book, they would change the subject. At first, I thought maybe I was talking too much about it and it was boring them. So I only talked about it when someone asked (not the friend but others around them). But that didn’t appear to help and our friendship became more strained each day.

Then I started thinking about it. If they were really my friend, they would ask me questions, especially around the release dates. Well, I decided it’s no big deal. I have several friends who are only readers that enjoy talking about my books and the journey I’m taking. I make a point of asking them questions about their lives, family and books they’re reading to keep the conversation even. Yes, I’ve had other writer friends who dominate conversations about their books and never ask about mine (before I was published in particular). So I know how frustrating that can be too.

There are a few writers I’m acquainted with who avoid talking to me now, but that’s no worry. The Lord has blessed me with lots of caring and loving friends of all types.

One thing I never expected, and should’ve considering past history, was having family members who throw little temper-tantrums because I’m getting so much attention from other family members. Thankfully, being family, I know them well and ignore their little attitudes and plan to continue to enjoy my first two books and hopefully many more afterwards. Just wait until they see how much weight I lost. They will pout or make remarks about me taking so long to lose so little. Can you tell I’ve already had one conversation with a family member? That’s only a sign of a person who’s never been overweight. Besides, it took me 37 years to get as heavy as I was, four months to lose half the weight I need to get rid of is great. The doctor said it should take until next year (July). Check out this link for info on healthy weight loss.

Just thought I would pass on this info for newly published and soon-to-be published authors along with my special friends who congratulate me and ask questions about my books. LOL!

The Talented Margie Lawson

2011-11-15T06:00:00.000-06:00

I'm over at Margie Lawson's Writing Blog today. She had some interesting things to say about my book. And we talked about what I learned from her workshop in July. Come over and comment. I'll be giving away two books.

First Book Signing

2011-11-13T10:04:00.001-06:00

November 5, 2011 was my RWA chapter's Romance Readers Luncheon. We have it every year for the last seven years. This year's was the best. First because Lisa Dunick was the chairperson. She has a fantastic mind, very creative. Second because we have an energetic president, Heather Leonard, also with a creative mind. Put those two people together and you have magic.

Then, third, we had the marvelous Victoria Dahl! The woman is kind, generous and so funny. Fourth, the darling of Southern Magic (my RWA chapter), Jennifer Echols. We all love her so much. If you love YA books, you've got to read hers. They're wonderfully funny and filled with YA smoldering sexuality.

And, fifth and the biggy for me, it was my first book signing! I had the pleasure of sharing a book signing table with another debut author, Deborah Kaufman. So cool. We had a lot of fun. If you're wondering, I'm on the left.

At my author table (where we listen to the speakers and ate lunch) I had my four sister-in-laws and my two beautiful daughters along with my buddy, JoAnn.

Come On Over

2011-11-12T07:00:00.000-06:00

I'm back at home. Well, I feel like it's home as much as this one is. Come over to the Romance Magicians' blog. I'm talking about "Walk This Way, Talk This Way." You guess it. How heroes talk and walk.

Friday - Next To Last Day For Blog Tour

2011-11-11T05:52:00.001-06:00

Today, you can find me at http://blameitonthemuse.com/. Like I've mentioned before, each blog is a little different so you will learn something new either about me or my book. So I hope to see you there.

By the way, my editor said there was a glitch and books are available. YAY!

Next - Just Romantic Supense Website

2011-11-09T20:00:00.000-06:00

For those who love, love romantic suspense, this is the website for you! It's got everything you can imagine to do with romantic suspense. Lots of authors' interviews, news, book excerpts/blurbs, etc.

This evening through tomorrow, that's where you can find me. So come over and find out the clues of reading too much romantic suspense and how I found myself writing it.

http://www.justromanticsuspense.com/

Yep, Another Blog Tour Continues

2011-11-08T21:34:00.000-06:00

First, I want to mention that I'm trying to find out what's going on with the paperback copies of Circle of Desire. Barnes and Noble is showing "Not Available" and isn't even letting people order them at all now. Amazon is showing 5-8 weeks for delivery. Yeah. That's the way to sell books. Hopefully, I'll have an answer soon. It certainly has placed a damper on the tour this week. ::sigh::

BUT, you can still get the book in e-format. Even if you don't have an e-reader, you can download it to your phone, iPod, or/and laptop. That is cheaper. PLUS, I'm giving away paperback copies at the blogs I'm visiting. I have a box full, so I don't have to wait 5-8 weeks. :-)

Okay. Now for the Wednesday's blog, go to Avery Flynn's blog (http://averyflynn.com/). She asked me some odd questions. Kept me on my toes. LOL! Let me know what you think. You can probably tell I've been working in sales for many years. All sales people sound like politicans. LOL!

November 8, 2011 - Happy Paperback Release Day!

2011-11-08T05:00:00.000-06:00

Today is the day for the paperback version of Circle of Desire to be available for purchase. Remember you have to order it on-line at Barnes and Noble, Amazon and Books-a-Million. You can still order the e-format at the same places and including at Sony and iBooks (iTunes).

And today, you can find me at Cynthia Eden's blog. Be sure to come over and comment. I will be giving away a copy of Circle of Desire. To give you an idea of what I will be talking about, here's the title: Why I Love Alphas, and No! My Heroine Isn’t A B*tch.

LOL! See you there!

100 Miles An Hour

2011-11-03T20:29:00.000-05:00

Have you ever driven an 100 miles per hour or more? I have. In fact, the fastest I've ever gone (driving) is 120 miles per hour and maybe even faster as at the time, that was as high as my 1966 Lemans' speedometer would go. Long story. Just know I was young and dumb.

The car in the picture looks exactly like that car. It was in fact, my first car. And no, it wasn't new even then.

Anyway, the reason I mention all of this is that I'm feeling like that's what speed I'm going and getting very little accomplished. I've decided after next week, I will be avoiding Facebook and Twitter. Though I'll probably blog occasionally, I will be going to no mail on my loops. So if you want to contact me, you'll need to send me an email directly. Go to my website to contact me.

Speaking of website, I'm still not happy with mine. If I change it again (most likely), it will be the fourth one this year. Considering I kept the one I had back in January for nearly five years, that's really something. Plus, I really need to be writing and not designing. ::Sigh::

Another One Added

2011-11-02T23:12:00.004-05:00

On November 7, I will be on Margie Lawson's blog. Be sure to make plans to see me. I will be giving away a copy of CIRCLE OF DESIRE!

[updated 11/9/11: Margie and I had a little mix up. So I will be there on 11/15/11.]

Another Day In My Fantasy

2011-10-31T23:56:00.002-05:00

Yes. I feel like I'm living in a fantasy world. In this world, I'm published and everything is rosy and just right. Wait! I'm here in the real world and awake! But I'm still published and by AVON! :::insert girly squeal here:::

I receive my newest RT Book Reviews and inside was Avon Impulse newest ad. See the picture I took below. Hopefully it will be okay that I posted it here.

Plus on Pages 11 and 12, they mentioned me and quoted my editor. They said stuff like "Avon Impulse...has got an author for you. Carla Swafford, a name the publisher hopes you will soon be familiar with..." So exciting and so wonderful.

No. Don't worry. I hope to goodness I'm not getting a big head about all of this. It's just that I never expected any of it. Hard to explain. Nothing like this has ever happened to me.

I plan to keep appreciating all the positive and ignore any negative (what little there is) and enjoy it all. Plus I'll continue to work hard, so maybe all the good things will keep rolling down to me.

More To Celebrate

2011-10-29T22:57:00.001-05:00

First, I can't believe I haven't mentioned this on my blog, but Avon did a great press release on the day Circle of Desire came out in e-format. IT WAS AWESOME! Click here to check it out!

Next, another site reviewed Circle of Desire and said, "Overall, this was a great romantic suspense debut!!" Among The Muses Click on the link and you can read the whole thing.

When it comes to Circle of Danger's first chapter revealed at the end of the book, they said, "I'm definitely looking forward to the next installment!"
YAY!

Who's Next?

2011-10-28T13:22:00.003-05:00

In less than two weeks, I will be at the following blogs celebrating the release of the paperback Circle of Desire. Lots of fun and I will be giving away copies! I received a box last night and expect to have more by then. So be sure to comment.

[added 11/2] 11/7 - Magie Lawson's blog - http://www.margielawson.com/margies-writing-blog
11/8 - Cynthia Eden's blog - http://www.cynthiaeden.com/blog/
11/9 - Avery Flynn's blog - http://averyflynn.com/
11/10 -Just Romantic Suspense blog - http://justromanticsuspense.blogspot.com/
11/11 -Blame It On The Muse blog - http://blameitonthemuse.com/

Hope to see you there!

Last Day For Circle Of Desire (e-format) Blog Tour

2011-10-25T05:00:00.005-05:00

Today, I'll be over at Christy Reece's blog! She's a sweetheart (sweetheart - Sweet Reward - LOL! So appropriate) and half and is one of my good friends. A few weeks ago, she rode with me to Atlanta and we toured the Aquarium and hung out with Sherrilyn Kenyon. So much fun!

Be sure to come over and comment. At 8 p.m. Central, I will announce the winners of the $25 Amazon Gift Certificate from Avon and the three $10 B&N Gift Cards. So that's four chances to win. I've had a great time.

But I have to say I'm ready to get back to work full time (besides the day job) on the second book and get to the end. My poor characters have been in a bad spot for quite a few days now.

See you over there! We'll have a SWEET time! (I couldn't resist.)

By the way, this is me visiting with Christy and Jennifer Echols at their book signing.

Two More Chances To Comment

2011-10-24T05:00:00.001-05:00

Be sure to visit me at Patricia Preston's blog today. And then tomorrow at NYT best selling author Christy Reece's blog.
Lots of fun and I will be announcing the winners from the blog tour on Christy's blog.

Thanks to everyone who has come by and commented!

Cross-Eyed From All The Fun Of Promotion

2011-10-23T14:07:00.002-05:00

Wow! I have done ten blog posts this month. And that's not counting the ones here. It takes up a lot of my precious time. Working full time (with overtime) leaves only a few hours. Plus I try to participate in family functions. Though I've blown off two for the weekend to get all my work caught up (posts and writing on Circle of Danger).

So be ready to check out the last two on this blog tour, and then be prepared for November 8. I believe I will be at talented and sweet Cynthia Eden's blog on my paperback release date. She and I will confirm this Monday. Then followed by Avery Flynn's blog on November 9 and Mary Freeman's Blame It On The Muse November 11. That last one will be on 11/11/11. Cool, huh?

November 5, I will be at Southern Magic's Romance Readers Luncheon at the Harbert Center. You still have time to sign up. Click here for more information. You get lots of free books!

Then that should be all of my promotion for this year. I need the break and time to write. Hopefully, I will complete Circle of Danger soon and then move on to the third book in The Circle Series. It hasn't sold, but if I have half or all of it written when it's time to negotiate, that can only be good all the way around.

Somewhere along the way, I would like to finish an historical I have that's doing very well in the contest circuit. Now that I'm published, I can't enter it just anywhere. Most contest don't allow current published authors to enter no matter what. but there are a few that allow authors to enter into categories they're not published in. So I can no longer enter unpublished books in the Romantic Suspense and Erotica categories. Though I can enter my published books in several contests specifically set up for them.

Anyway, I just received the news THE CAGED HEART (my medieval) finalled in another contest (Hot Prospects). So awesome! Makes my heart happy.

Okay. No more fooling around. I have one more blog post to write and then I should have time to work on Circle of Danger. I know what happens next and really want to hurry to finish it. I'm so close to the end, I could throw a rock at it.

Talk with you soon. Make time to read!

Day Six Of My Blog Tour

2011-10-21T05:20:00.001-05:00

I believe you will especially enjoy today's post at I Wanna to Sit And Read blog. As I had said a few days ago, I've tried to keep every post different and this one certainly is. My characters actually give 5 traits of a hero and heroine. It was fun to write and, goodness, it's so amazing to realize how the characters really show their personalities. Some days I wonder if I have a split personality (a la Three Faces Of Eve).

Anyway, go to the blog and comment. Please.

No blogs on the 22nd and 23nd. But the last two are Monday and Tuesday.

Day Five of My Blog Tour

2011-10-19T23:09:00.002-05:00

Yesterday was loads of fun with Laurie and bunches of commenters at Black Velvet Seduction Blog. Click here to check out the post and comments. They asked some really great questions that was a blast to answer. It's never too late to comment.

Today, I will be at News and Reviews From The Heart of The Dragon's Den. I love their picture of the two dragons and the misty dream castle. So come over and comment. I'm going to have a drawing on the 25th of all the commenters' names.

And Reviews Begin

2011-10-18T17:50:00.000-05:00

Today, was my release date for Circle of Desire. So much fun and so many people wishing me well. There are a lot of kind people in this industry. But I'm also aware starting this evening, I will find a mix of good and cruel people. What do I mean? Well, tomorrow people will start adding their reviews to different sites about my book. (Thank goodness for RT Book Reviews', I think I can handle almost anything.) Some will love it and some will hate it.

Why do I think the latter? Because my book has intense emotions and subjects in it. Some readers will feel uncomfortable with them. They will not "grade" it by how well it's written (no, I don't think it's literary art), e.g, plot, characterization, etc., but instead of saying it's not their cup of tea, they'll attack it and be ugly. I've seen too many authors done that way, and it was books I loved. So I don't expect anything different. No one is above it. Too many different tastes out there.

Thanks to the Good Lord for that.

Day 3 On the Blog Tour

2011-10-18T17:38:00.002-05:00

Come over today to Reader Girls' Blog and comment to be included in the drawing on 10/25. Several people have mention having a problem getting their comments through, but hopefully more will work it out. In this blog, I talk about the competition between authors. Are there? Or aren't there?

http://readergirls.blogspot.com/2011/10/gfp-circle-of-desire-virtual-book-tour.html?showComment=1318970409798#c6267612948447149117

Come On Over!

2011-10-17T06:00:00.001-05:00

I will be at Among The Muses blog today. Be sure to come over and say hello and get your name in the drawing. Click here. And be sure to check back tomorrow. I'm traveling (blog-wise) around. (Note: the Muses blog is for 18 and older.)

Carla

The Uninformed

2011-10-16T18:42:00.002-05:00

Though I came across this with a few people who admitted they read VERY little, and they have an excuse (sorta), but I had it from people who claimed to read several books a year. They asked the following questions.

Where can I buy your book? (This is asked over and over again.)
When can I order your book?
Why can't I buy it in a store? (Then the next question comes up.)
Is it a real book?
Is it from a real publisher?
You wrote a book?
Avon? Is the cosmetic company publishing books now?
What is the price of your book?
Are you going to quit your job now?
Are you rich?
Aren't you proud of yourself?
I think I'll write a book and get published now. Can you get me published?

To me, these questions are strange. Even before I even considered writing books (a long time ago), I knew most of these answers including the Avon one. As a reader, I knew Avon on the spine meant it was a good read.

Okay, here are the answers for those who just don't know but will never read my blog to find the answer, because bless their hearts (Yep. I said it.), they don't know how to find my blog. Plus when I tell people (even those I know and know me) to check out my website, they always ask me, "How can I find it?" It is an unusual name I've gone by every day of my life for the last thirty-seven years.

Where can I buy your book?
Anywhere (legally) you can buy books on-line.

When can I order your book?
Last summer. Last week. Today. Tomorrow and probably for many years afterwards. But I would really appreciate it you buy it today and no later than Tuesday. Why? Because the pre-orders and the day of release are the most important to an author. No. I won't make more money, but this will count for (1) the best selling lists (If I'm that lucky) and (2) even if I don't make the lists, it will impress my publishing house, and they'll offer me another contract. And that's very important. I do need more contracts, so I can share more stories, especially about this series.

Why can't I buy it in a store?
I knew this going in, and it's really no problem E-format is very popular with the people who love to read. Those who will only buy (if they really do and not just saying it) the first copy won't care if the next book is e-format or paperback anyway. Why? Because the ones who don't read, won't read this either. But thanks for your supportive words.

Is it a real book?
Yes. Virginia, it's real.

Is it from a real publisher?
Oh, yeah. Last time I checked, HarperCollins is a real publisher. I even Google Earth their office building. You need to try it. It's so cool.

You wrote a book?
Yep. I promise I did. Why would I lie about that? (In my sarcasm, I want to say so badly, "No. I just wanted to see your face. SURPRISE!") Besides, do I look that stupid? Please don't answer that.

Avon? Is the cosmetic company publishing books now?
Now on this, I bet all Avon authors get it from their family and friends not into reading and/or writing. Oh, by the way, if you don't know. NO. No connection.

What is the price of your book?
::sigh:: This is actually a question I cannot answer. Why you ask? Because HarperCollins (Avon Impulse) sets the price, but the book sellers can sell it at any price they want. But the book seller has to pay HC the amount agreed upon. So if the book sellers sells it below cost, the book seller loses the money, not HC or me (or my agent). It's a different story if HC lowers the price. Presently, the "retail selling price" is $3.99 for the e-format and $6.99 for the paperback.

Are you going to quit your job now?
Don't I wish! But alas, most new authors don't make enough to even get off Welfare. And, no, I'm not on Welfare. Remember, the job you asked about me quiting?

Are you rich?
Not everyone is as lucky as the author who wrote Twilight. And she wasn't rich (unless she was previously) until a couple years later. Yes. It takes a while to get your royalty checks and those books grew in popularity. And I was referring to the first one. The later ones flew off the shelves.

Aren't you proud of yourself?
Part of me believes the people who ask this were proud for me, but another part (cynical) believed they thought I was already a holier-than-thou person. Sometimes I guess I can come off like that because it's a defensive mechanism for me to stiffen up and be short with my answers. Especially if I feel they are trying to find something to use against me.

Anyway, I answered, "I'm very happy I'm finally published. It's something I've wanted and dreamed about for a long, long time."

I think I'll write a book and get published now. Can you get me published?
I always laugh at this one. I tell them it took me nine plus years. Usually, that shuts them up.

Tomorrow Is The Beginning

2011-10-15T20:04:00.000-05:00

Tomorrow (10/16), I start my blog tour. So be sure to go by each blog and comment. More often you comment, the more chances you have to win.

Click on the label above to look at the schedule and the links.

SEE YOU THERE!!

Tick-Tock

2011-10-14T18:29:00.001-05:00

Only four more days and Circle of Desire will be downloaded by whoever preordered/ordered it. I liked how the reviewer from RT Book Review, Dawn Crowne, wrote, "This is a dark, gritty story that will grab you by the throat..." For sure, the faint of heart will have a hard time understanding some of the actions of the characters. They live in a world very different from most of us. Everything is an extreme: their feelings, their actions and their sexuality.

I wrote the book to entertain myself. La Femme Nikita was off the air. The new Nikita hadn't started yet, and Alias was adios. The TV series (LFN) came close to being a perfect series. It had action, romance (including the occasional kissing, long looks, and best of all bedroom scenes), and plot twists even I couldn't figure out. Considering how I frustrate my daughters whenever I would watch a movie or TV show and start telling them what will happen next, that's saying something. You see, my girls would ask, "Have you seen it before?" Because I was most often right about my guesses. And I would say, "No." They would wonder how I did it. As I told them, "After you read so many books, you recognize the set ups."

So I wanted to be sure to write one that had a twist or two that was unexpected. Not sure if I accomplished that, but I do know I enjoyed it when Dawn added, "[Y]ou will be blown away by the story's stunning intensity." Wow! She's good.

4-1/2 FREAKING STARS

2011-10-11T23:00:00.000-05:00

I can't believe I missed this when I was looking at the website with the interview. THEY REVIEWED CIRCLE OF DESIRE AND GAVE IT FOUR AND HALF STARS!!!! Click here to read it! The reviewer got my book. Hopefully, she'll review CIRCLE OF DANGER too.

Do you have any idea of how many years I've read RT and dreamed of seeing my book in it? The review is on their website. That's close enough to make me happy. And then to give me that rating. I'm ecstatic! I had hoped but never imagined them giving me such a wonderful rating.

Check Out My RT Bookreviews

2011-10-11T18:49:00.000-05:00

I need to work on my "and uh" but I love it. Morgan is a great interviewer.

Who's Your Hero?

2011-10-11T09:43:00.002-05:00

Come over to Romance Magicians and tell me who would play your hero?

More Men of The Circle Series

2011-10-10T05:57:00.002-05:00

LOL! Believe it are not but Hugh Jackman doesn't show up as another character in the series. Here are two of several who will have their books. Another set of brothers, Rex and Jack. Both are alpha and think they have life by its brass balls until they meet up with the women who makes their world tilt.

Let me introduce Vin Diesel as Jack (has a shaved head, tats and piercings) and Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson as Rex (actually, has long hair, a scar across his nose and comes to a vee on his cheek).

And Keep Getting Better Looking!

2011-10-09T09:04:00.025-05:00

In the first book, you're introduced to several characters who will hopefully have their own books. I do know for sure Collin's brother will have his as it's the second book coming out in 2012, Circle of Danger. Ryker looks a lot like Collin but he has burn scars on the right side of his body, and he wears a patch over his blind eye. So you're not mistaken I've picked Hugh Jackman again for Ryker. But the pictures I choose are of him a little older. Then for Marie, Ryker's love interest, I think Hayden Panettiere is the best pick. She's only five one in real life. Marie is small for her age, that's why in the first book everyone believes she's a teenager. She isn't. That's explained in the second book. Just didn't want you to freak out thinking I have a grown man and a teenager having a fling.

Looking Good!

2011-10-08T21:03:00.003-05:00

I've been working (finally) on my second book, hoping to finish this month if nothing happens. So as I was working on some of the earlier chapters to tighten it up and figure out where I left off, I started thinking about what everyone looked like. Back when I was writing Circle of Desire, I had a picture of a male model for Collin. But I've decided Hugh Jackman would make a great Collin and Diane Lane as Olivia. Of course, Colllin and Olivia are actually younger than them, but the following pictures from some time ago will work. Collin would have shorter hair though I have to say, I like Hugh's hair like this. Check it out.

New World Order

2011-10-06T22:38:00.003-05:00

Do you ever wonder if these are the future terrorists of the world? http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/43887951/ns/technology_and_science-security/

Special Trip Worries

2011-10-05T20:13:00.001-05:00

Last week, I worried about getting sick or having an accident or even monster pimples. Yes. I have to worry about those still. Why was I more worried than usual? Christy Reece and I planned to go to the Georgia Aquarium and then to the Moolight and Magnolias conference's book signing.

Well, everything went fine until Friday afternoon. I received a call from my youngest. She was feeling unwell and at the doctor's. Turned out to be acute appendicitis. I left work and met her and her boyfriend (he picked her up as we were on opposite sides of town) at the hospital.

By 9 that evening, she was in surgery. Everything worked out okay. She had to spend the night but she'd decided to recover at her boyfriend's house. She's 23 and adult. So what could I say? Plus, I really wanted to go though I felt bad leaving her. Yet, I knew if I cancelled, I wouldn't even see her.

Anyway, the trip was wonderful. My daughter is fine. And I hope Christy and I get to do something together again soon. Here are a few pictures at the book signing.

Dianna Love - the woman is a ball of energy. Fun to be around.

Kim, Sherrilyn's sweet assistant

One of the kindest people I know, Sherrilyn Kenyon

Do Ostriches Have It Right?

2011-10-03T21:58:00.000-05:00

I like to think of myself as an up-to-date type of girl. Between several YAHOO loops, Publishers Lunch emails, and the Romance Writers Report form the RWA, I feel I'm rather informed on what's going on in the publishing world. But just like the local newspaper with all its crime stories, it can depress the heck of me too.

Maybe helicopter pilots and ostriches have it right. Keep your head down and ignore the crap flying around.

I Am What I Am

2011-09-30T09:34:00.002-05:00

If you know me, I can talk about anything with anyone without a blush or stutter. Sometimes though, if something happens out of the blue and I'm not intentionally talking about something rather risqué, I can actually blush.

Well, it happened the other day. A fellow in my office was asking questions about my Nook. So I showed him all you can flip through the different books and rearrange them by author, title and such. Again, if you know me, I read a little bit of everything to do with romance. I have an extensive list of erotica and several are S & M. Yes. I do have a wicked side.

Normally, it wouldn't embarrass me. I believe if you're ashamed of something, don't do it. Only thing is this fellow is a very nice guy who teaches Sunday school for goodness sakes. And like I said, he'd asked about my Nook out of the blue and I was showing him how it works and there are all the covers to my erotica zooming by. Think, bare butts arranged for spanking, bare chested men with handcuffs, lots of skin. My face a little warm, I told him, "You know me. Overlook the covers." And I continued to show him the different great features of the Nook. LOL!

He just smiled.

Like, Popeye says, "I am what I am."

Be Careful

2011-09-29T08:27:00.000-05:00

Crazy, I know, considering some of the nutsy things I've written here. But people really need to be careful of what they write, especially on loops, bulletin boards, and blogs. If you never mention names or organizations or give too much details, a person will probably be okay. Otherwise, be careful. You never know who is reading it. People have looong memories.

That's my public safety announcement for the week.

Size Matters

2011-09-24T17:52:00.000-05:00

LOL! I know what you're thinking, but that's not what I plan to write about. It's to do with a couple books I've read lately. Well at the least, two books I'm reading now. Yes. I'm too impatient to read one at a time.

Anyway, for some reason authors are describing their heroines as short and they're 5' 5" to 5' 7"! Hello! The average height for a woman in the U.S. is 5' 4". So that's not short. Sure the males in some books are extremely tall but the heroes in the books are not more than 6' 3". Compared to his height, she is shorter, but she's not "short." Yes. There is a different.

Think about it.

Funny Guys

2011-09-23T22:02:00.000-05:00

As I've mentioned before on this blog, I listen to different comedy stations on XM most of the time. What is one thing every male comic have in common? They love fart and poop jokes. ::shaking head::

Busy Days Ahead

2011-09-21T20:43:00.001-05:00

Tonight, I plan to write another post for the blog tour next month. So far, I've written two. The promotion company said to be sure to make each one unique, verbose, and entertaining. Well, I giving it my best shot. Considering I like to write short, this will be a most interesting experience for me. Then again, I do love talking about my books and the writing process overall. So I should feel in my element.

Keep your fingers crossed I do this right.

And, oh, yeah, be sure to follow the blogs on the dates from the post below (Sept. 16) or click on the blog tour banner above.

Mish-Mash

2011-09-17T18:54:00.000-05:00

Like most Saturdays, I went shopping for the odds and ends I need at home. It was a beautiful day. Blue skies. In the low 90s. Since I've lost so much weight, walking isn't a hardship and I don't wear out so quickly. It's amazing how your out look can change when get in better health. I can't wait until next year. More pounds should be off and hopefully I'll be at my goal a few months before I leave for Anaheim (RWA conference) in July. I even bought a blouse today a size smaller than normal. Wonderful.

The little town I live in, you would think I would come across people I know all the time. Nope. But everyone I passed smiled back. I believe everyone was ready for the slightly cooler weather and gorgeous day.

Yesterday, my youngest daughter (Y) brought over her boyfriend. He's such a cutie and so polite. Plus I found out he reads! You know what I mean. Of course, all of her boyfriends in the past could read words. I'm talking about he picks up books and reads them and enjoys doing it. He named off a few authors he likes. Of course, most of them I've never heard of as they're not romance authors, but I know my smile got bigger and bigger. Then Y said, "I think Mom is in love with you." She's so funny. How could she tell? LOL!

The next two weekends should be rather busy. Saturday my writers group is having a full day workshop, LAW AND ORDER FOR THE WRITER. To see the line up, go to http://www.southernmagic.org/programs.html. You will be impressed. It's going to be fantastic. Heather Leonard is awesome! http://magiccitywriting.blogspot.com/ She set up the whole thing.

Then the first weekend of October, I plan to drive to Atlanta to see several people at a book signing. 1) Sherrilyn Kenyon. I owe that lady so much. Love her. 2) Her assistant, Kim. She's such a sweetheart. 3) Nicki Salcedo. The woman is marveleous! And my lovely chapter mates: Heather, Christine and Mary.

Hoping you're having a wonderful day.

Be Sure To Follow My Blog Tour

2011-09-16T08:49:00.021-05:00

We're going to have fun!

I'll update this post with links and dates.

OCT. 17 --Among The Muses

OCT 18 -- Reader Girls Blog

OCT 19 -- Black Velvet Seductions

OCT 20 -- Heart of the Dragon's Den

OCT 21 -- I Just Wanna Sit Here And Read!

This information can also be found on my website. http://www.carlaswafford.com/presskit.html

Special requested dates:

OCT. 16 -- Christine Glover's Blog - http://verandaview.blogspot.com/

OCT. 24 -- Patricia Prestion's Blog - http://patricia-preston.blogspot.com

OCT. 25 -- Christy Reece's blog http://christyreece.blogspot.com/

NOV. 11 -- Mary Freeman's Blog - http://blameitonthemuse.com/

Oh, Yes!

2011-09-15T20:25:00.002-05:00

I enjoy sexy men from many areas of the world. Here are a few.

What's Up With Bangs For Men?

2011-09-14T08:00:00.003-05:00

Now I'm not talking about Justin Bieber's old haircut (bangs brushed to the side). It's the bangs on men over 30. The short bangs about an inch long. I've seen several men with that haircut and I want to shake them. You're not a kid anymore, and it looked awful then. I tried to find a picture on line, but I guess I need to go to Walmart and take a picture to give you an idea. I figure it's a redneck southern thang.

Pacing Yourself

2011-09-13T22:17:00.000-05:00

Instead of the planned contest article, I posted an updated old article on pacing. Click here and check it out. The video is worth it.

Authors4TheCure Donating Book Proceeds To Breast Cancer Research

2011-09-12T05:00:00.000-05:00

Eleven authors have banded together to support breast cancer research with their writing. Authors4theCure, which includes award-winning and New York Times bestselling authors, as well as two breast cancer survivors, is donating proceeds from the sale of their paranormal anthology, Entangled, to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation (BCRF).

BCRF-funded research has helped save lives and improved the quality of care and rate of survival for tens of thousands of breast cancer patients in the past decade. Their research has revealed that the "cure" is a mosaic made up of as many approaches to diagnosing, treating, preventing and surviving as there are different types of breast cancer. The anthology is also a mosaic made up of many stories donated for this worthwhile cause.

Entangled includes ten suspense-filled paranormal stories from authors Lori Brighton, Michelle Diener, Cynthia Eden, Jennifer Estep, Misty Evans, Nancy Haddock, Liz Kreger, Dale Mayer, Michelle Miles, and Edie Ramer, plus a novella by Allison Brennan. Stacia Kane contributed the foreword and the book’s formatting and cover art were also donated to the project.

Entangled will release September 12, 2011, and will be available as an ebook at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Smashwords and other online retailers.

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Ghosts, vampires, demons, and more! Entangled includes ten suspense-filled paranormal short stories from authors Cynthia Eden, Jennifer Estep, Edie Ramer, Lori Brighton, Michelle Diener, Misty Evans, Nancy Haddock, Liz Kreger, Dale Mayer, and Michelle Miles, plus a Seven Deadly Sins novella by Allison Brennan.

Stacia Kane contributed the foreword. Formatting and cover art were also donated to the project by Lori Devoti and Laura Morrigan.

All proceeds go to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation.

Stories include:

HALLOWEEN FROST by USA Today bestselling author Jennifer Estep (author of the Mythos Academy, Elemental Assassin, and Bigtime series) — It's Halloween at Mythos Academy, but Gwen Frost and her friends are in for more tricks than treats when they run into a mythological monster intent on killing them.

THE FAT CAT by Edie Ramer (author of Cattitude, Galaxy Girls) — In a battle for the souls of seven women, a wizard has the god of war on his side; all the witch has is a fat, black cat.

MEDIUM RARE by Nancy Haddock (author of the Oldest City Vampire trilogy) —What’s spooking the spirits of St. Augustine? As the witching hour of Halloween approaches, ghost seer Colleen Cotton must team with a by-the-book paranormal investigator to locate the one ghost who can save the city’s specters. If she fails, her own great grandfather’s spirit may be lost forever.

SWEET DEMON by Misty Evans (author of the Witches Anonymous series) —When Chicago’s vampire king insists Kali Sweet join his empire, the vengeance demon must rely on her ex – the half-human, half-chaos demon who left her at the altar three hundred years ago – in order to escape the vamp’s clutches.

SIAN’S SOLUTION by Dale Meyer (author of the Psychic Visions series) — When a vampire discovers the human man she loves has been captured and hung in a blood farm, she goes against her own kind and risks everything to save him.

A BIT OF BITE by Cynthia Eden (author of NEVER CRY WOLF and ANGEL OF DARKNESS) — A killer is stalking the streets of Crossroads, Mississippi, and it's up to Sheriff Ava Dushaine to stop him. But when suspicion falls on werewolf alpha Julian Kasey—Ava’s ex-lover and the man who still haunts her dreams—Ava knows that she'll either have to prove his innocence...or watch the whole town go up in flames.

SINFULLY SWEET by Michelle Miles (author of the Coffee House series) — When Chloe bakes a little magic into her pastries, she attracts the attention of Edward, the sexy half-demon, half-witch, who’s come to warn her those who murdered her sister are now after her.

A NIGHT OF FOREVER by Lori Brighton (author of A Night of Secrets and To Seduce an Earl) — Who is Aidan Callaghan? Mary Ellen James is intent on uncovering the truth about the mysterious man, but as she soon finds out, some things are best left buried in the past.

FEEL THE MAGIC by Liz Kreger (author of the Part of Tomorrow series) — Jenna Carmichael’s magical attempt to rectify Jessica Manfield’s birth identity takes an unexpected turn when the past comes back to haunt her.

BREAKING OUT by Michelle Diener (author of the Tudor-set historical suspense novel In A Treacherous Court) — Imprisoned in a secret facility, powerful telekinetic Kelli Barrack and two other 'special' inmates grab a chance to escape, only to confront their worst nightmares on the outside.

GHOSTLY JUSTICE, an all-new Seven Deadly Sins novella by New York Times bestselling author Allison Brennan (author of the Seven Deadly Sins series) — Demon hunters Moira O’Donnell and Rafe Cooper are dragged into the dangerous world of nocturnal predators to find “Ghostly Justice” for a virgin sacrificed to an ancient blood demon.

What Kind of Accent Do You Have?

2011-09-11T13:00:00.000-05:00

Over the years, people in other parts of U.S. have told me, "I like your accent." HA! I'm not the one with an accent. At least, in Alabama. LOL! And Californians claim they don't have one. Yes. They do. Bless their hearts. Ya'll need to check this out. Click here.

A Reason To Watch True Blood

2011-09-08T21:20:00.000-05:00

Are You Really Interested? Or Making Small Talk?

2011-09-05T09:33:00.003-05:00

Every time a close friend or family member ask: "Have you gotten your book cover?" "Do you have a release date yet?" "What's your book about?" - I laugh and shake my head. It's not like they have to remember a pseudonym. Sure, I'm happy to tell people about my book, but I expect certain people to be interested enough to take a peek at my webpage or whatever every once in a while. I check up on my friends once a week by phone or email or their blog (if they have one) and I have the same 24 hrs and full time job (with overtime), plus a part time one as a writer. (YAY!)

Do I expect them to know everything? No. But when I mentioned the info is on my webpage and then I answer them, I don't expect them to get offended. If I'm not offended that they didn't take time to check out my webpage (blog or Facebook), why should they?

Do I worry the same people will see this post and get offended again? No. They won't read it, and most likely it's not the first time they asked a question that was answered here. LOL! If by chance they learned their lesson, they can always comment and fuss at me.

I just saying...

A Little Teaser

2011-09-04T23:11:00.002-05:00

My next to post at Romance Magicians is September 13, and I plan for it to be an article I've been thinking about writing for a few years now. Not sure how indepth it will be, but it will be about contests in general with a lot of references to the Linda Howard of Excellence. Considering, with some input from a committee (especially from a certain Kelley Zeringue), it was pretty much my baby for the last six years, I know everything about it leading up to last month. And starting last month (2012 contest), it is in good hands (Thanks, Heather!) that aren't mine.

For those who don't know me and you're wondering if I know my stuff, let me give you this information. Over seventeen years (various years, totaling eight, I didn't enter anything), I've entered 111 contests (averages 12 a year - I'm sure there are plenty who've entered more, but I'm a little picky), and seven of those were in the Golden Heart. That was with 15 different entries. Only 16 entries went to the finals (little over 14%) with 2 as honorable mentions in NJRW's Put Your Heart In A Book contest. Of course, two of those finals were in the Maggies, one was in the Emily and three GOTCHAs. I had only one win and that was in the GOTCHA. Thankfully at that time they allowed the editor to decide as I would've come in 3rd otherwise. This last time I finalled, they let the score decide. I would've never entered if I had known that.

Anyway, there's a little teaser. I have a lot more to say, but in the RM post no contests except the LH AoE will be named. No need to ruffle feathers.

What I Learn From Funny People

2011-09-03T21:03:00.000-05:00

If you've been reading my posts for a while or following me on Facebook, you know that I believe people who are laugh-out-loud funny are smart. Well, they are. Susan Elizabeth Phillip, Victoria Dahl, Will Farrell, and so many others.

When I got my car last year, I signed up for XM radio and have been enjoying the comedy stations. Some more than others as I like clean comedy. Strange considering I can cuss like a sailor and not think much about it. Plus I don't think nothing of using foul language in my books. All part of making the characters true to themselves. But when it comes to the comedians, I've found the cleaner ones are funnier. Plus listening to the stations brought me out of a funk I had been in at the time.

Have you as a reader/writer really listened to a good comedian and broken down his/her story to see what makes it so funny? I've been doing that and found they are great storytellers. They use words to exaggerate the moment. They paint pictures of those moments in time and do such a good job that we laugh so hard we cry. Yep. You can learn a lot from funny people.

Here's a video of one of my favorite comedians, Jeanne Robertson. Enjoy. Be sure to have a tissue to wipe up the tears of laughter.

Avon Romance and iBooks

2011-09-02T22:00:00.001-05:00

Avon Romance

I'm so excited about Avon books can now be found on iPad's iBooks. Too cool! Check on the link above to find out more.

Maybe The Day Job Has Its Uses

2011-08-31T19:44:00.001-05:00

Of course, having a day job ensures money is coming into the house. Got to pay the bills. But I talk with numerous people every day. Mostly men. It is an industry that men thrive in. Construction, in particular, waste water treament plants and water lines. Anyway, being in my current job for nearly fifteen years, I have several customers I've known for the same amount of time. A good number know that I write romance and all who've asked know my book is coming out October 18. I don't beat them over the head with updates. I do know how to act professional.

But by having a job where I talk with people in Washington, Oregon, Idaho, and Arizona, and with my prior territories in Nebraska, Colorado, Montana, and Utah and splatters in Massachuetts and Wisconsin, my name is known. So let's say a customer of mine who I never really said anything about my writing sees my name on a book. It would make him (or her, there are few women I work with) curious for sure. Will he buy it? Maybe not. It is a romance. But maybe he'll mention it to his wife, girlfriend, sister or mom. They will become curious and maybe buy. Or let's say someone who I use to work with at my other job (twenty years there, I was five when I started working) see my book. The name sounds familiar. Have they read a book by me before?

And I'm one of the notaries in my office. So someone in almost every state in the Union has seen my name.

Heavens, I use to work in the export department in the other company. So again my name is floating around the Middle East, Europe, Asia and Canada. Then I use to work with a company in England and Ireland importing valves. I did get around.

I guess being married to the same man is paying off too. Same last name all these years.

Yep. That all powerful name recognition. It will come in handy. Well, I hope it does.

And It Continues

2011-08-27T20:49:00.000-05:00

Wow! I think this is the longest I've gone and not blog something. Sorry about that. Time slipped away. Anyway, a sweet lady emailed me a couple days ago and said I should join Avon Impulse Author's loop. They have a loop? I was surprised and happy. So yesterday I did and what a nice group. Lots of info being passed back and forth.

In the group info on the side, it shows how many members are in that YAHOO loop. Guess what number I was? If you've been reading my blog for long you'll know the answer. Yep! Number 13. LOL!